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omg heartbreaking

ah so the first couple Sabine met was to teach us the rules of promises

such beautiful writing about what it feels like to turn.
also profound insight that when they feed they briefly feel their hearts beat again

“being sick is fucking metal”🤘🏻

omg they were scared for the first nation people dancing 😱

Book Ten - discusses free will

“the summer drags itself over coals”

omg please say something I haven’t heard 1000 times before 😩

beautifully written spice scene

“the music running its fingers through her hair”

This book is going to be both informative and annoying. I wish I could just fast forward even faster through the woke stuff that basically feels like a repetitive disclaimer at this point. I want to hear the new perspectives not the regurgitations like I don’t read

THANK YOU! a nonboring intro finally

Chapter XXX - Audible is so obnoxious for not putting the percentage. But ai just came here to say this book is not original. and it’s annoying. I’m going to finish it because I don’t even know why. But I am bored. This is why my “currently reading” shelf has ballooned - because a bunch of of the books are low-key boring

what is possible to think - what can thinking do?

on writing: Joan Didion writes to find out about herself. This author says she writes to find out what is possible

“but pity was not a relationship,
it was a rejection of a relationship”

a city where knowing someone once meant knowing them for life

this book is wrecking me. I am a wreck 😭😭😭

oh dang, he said “why did we ever wake up?!”

emotional vaccination to prepare for tough emotions

Pnp time sounds like special time 😒

fill up game

the fillup game is cool

chap 11 - wait what? PNP time sounds like special time from PCIT 😒

unformulated experience explained in chapter 9

theory that childhood stretched to help adults have more children - older children help with the younger ones

I like the boss and work example and the wisdom that multiple things can be true and that being seen is important - chapter 2

oh here we go with the anti time out… and “it sends them away when they need you.” this is such a misunderstanding of how we do things with PCIT

chapter 6 - oh snap they edited out gods wife ashra 😱

wisdom to remember why it was like before you didn’t have what you have now and wanting it