Happened to read this "The Erotics of Intelligence" by Helen Higgins,
https://helenhigginsbooks1.substack.c.... Woh!
-The sexist people are the ones that ruin your mind, not rumple your sheets.
-Intelligence is about being emotionally literate, culturally curious, and intellectually generous.
-The sexist minds don't give you everything. Instead, they want you to give all of yours.