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After reading more last night and into the early hours of the morning, something became clear to me. When my fear loosens its grip, I am not left with less love. I am left with a clearer love for her—one that allows me to see her as she is, rather than through my fears or my ideas of who she ought to be. What remains is love with clearer eyes.

My therapist recommended The Betrayal Bond, and I found it on Kindle after waking at 2 a.m., once again thinking about attachment and how old patterns have quietly guided me into some not-so-good places. I’m only 25 pages in, and I don’t often get surprised this quickly by a book. So far, I’m a little sad, very interested, and realizing that sometimes the person you’re studying is yourself.