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Very colourful & interesting to read with my baby. 😄

“Remember: As long as there’s any part of yourself that believes you need your gaslighter to feel better about yourself, to boost your confidence, or to bolster your sense of who you are in the world, you’ll be leaving yourself open for gaslighting.”

Excerpt From
The Gaslight Effect
Dr. Robin Stern
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“We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways, the ways we react and behave when we love someone.”

“My dear friend,” she whispered, “I’m sorry to have to say this . . . but you would have done the same thing.”

“I have a choice. You have a choice. We can choose to dwell on disappointments and shortcomings. We can choose to be bitter, angry, or sad. Or when faced with hard times and hurtful people, we can choose to learn from the experience and move forward, taking responsibility for our own happiness.”

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“But I wonder how different my world would be if any of those things had happened. You can’t change just one part, can you? When you sit there and wish things had happened differently, you can’t just wish away the bad stuff. You have to think about all the good stuff you might lose, too. Better just to stay in the now and focus on what you can do better in the future”

It’s getting interesting!

“Sixty-eight more years of marriage? To Dan?
I mean, I love Dan and everything, but …
Sixty-eight more years?”

Why? What’s wrong with another sixty-eight more wonderful years of marriage together?

Crying and laughing at the same time ;)

It’s hilarious and I’m going to finish it in seconds!

The story is not well connected and seemed off.. I need to skip some pages.

Slow starts at first, but it's getting better.