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Ơ, vừa đọc đã thấy mâu thuẫn với common sense của bản thân về trauma, thế nên phải tiếp tục đọc tiếp. Biết đâu mình sẽ có thêm một hướng nhìn mới.

Tuy mới đọc được 1/3 nhưng những gì 1/3 này mang lại cho bản thân cũng đáng để rate 5*.
"How long would you stay with someone who insisted on treating you as if you were the same person you were the day you two met?"
"Listening is a matter of you deciding you don't need to worry what to say next, which then allows "someone else's opinions and ideas to get pass your border defenses"

True, it’s painful to watch our kids learn through natural consequences or, as we like to call them, significant learning opportunities (SLOs). But that pain is part of the price we must pay to raise responsible kids. We have a choice though: We can hurt a little as we watch them learn life’s lessons now, or we can hurt a lot as we watch them grow up to be individuals unable to care for themselves.

"True, it’s painful to watch our kids learn through natural consequences or, as we like to call them, significant learning opportunities (SLOs). But that pain is part of the price we must pay to raise responsible kids. We have a choice though: We can hurt a little as we watch them learn life’s lessons now, or we can hurt a lot as we watch them grow up to be individuals unable to care for themselves."

First round done.

I have picked this book up and then put it down a number of times, definitely not an easy read it is.

Ain't I rereading the very book that I myself rated 1* just a few month ago???
Hell yeahh :))))