“it's been at least a year, longer, probably since Nate and me have been Nate and me. We settled so invisibly into our shared but separate lives … Nate had become my long-term plan by default, not choice, and that there was a part of me, not insignificant, that stayed with him only to prove something to myself. That I'm capable of an everlasting relationship. That I'm settled and grown-up and taken care of”
— Nov 19, 2025 08:15PM
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