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chapter review: the new age of coercive control and image based sexual abuse. found the terminology thought provoking (won’t be using revenge pornography anymore) and liked how bates tied back to victim blaming/slut shaming. this was a tough chapter to read though in terms of statistics, men’s quoted words and the fact that nothing has changed in like 10 years to better this issue.

the new age of objectification and cyber brothels was kind of terrifying — bates made convincing arguments on how these normalize violent and rape tendencies and the effects it has on real women. her anecdotal story about Kokeshi and having to remind herself that the sex doll isn’t real while so many men believe “she” is was a tough one to read and a tougher one to swallow that male empathy is dwindling

chapter review: the new age of rape regarding sex robots. two things to say. 1) this chapter made me incredibly disgusted with some men’s behaviour and with misogyny and 2) “men’s dicks trump women’s rights every time” DEPRESSING BANGER

the chapter about street harassment and the meta verse was kinda jarring and im both very glad i grew up on the early social media and terrified for girls growing up right now and what they might be getting exposed to more than i was. i don’t want this to be a new normal, fuck the metaverse

i found the chapter on the new age of slut shaming and deepfake pornography really interesting and particularly liked the thoughts on how sexual abuse like this is a threat to democracy.