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"One example of this is the rise of 'child-free influencers' in recent years, who not only normalize but glamorize the choice to not have children."

As someone who has never wanted kids, piss off. We are finally in an era where women aren't wholly expect to have kids by society because we can actually have lives outside of the Home Space. That is the freedom of choice: I don't want kids and that is entirely fine!!!

"Without religion, community, or shared responsibilities, there were no clear milestones to adulthood, no real obligations, and no obvious sense of direction."

we are certainly pushing a white picket fence vibe right now

"Tate is of course an extreme example. Many influencers promoting masculinity give helpful advice to young men on relationships and responsibility."

girl where

“And now the very companies that hollowed out our friendships have the nerve to sell us their substitutes”

Oh so we can acknowledge that there is corporate blame here and not just influencers and our failing family systems

"Church attendance is dropping, too. Over the past twenty years, the share of US adults who attend weekly or nearly weekly religious services has steadily declined"

Some of us believe in other religions or are atheist ma'am, do you have general stats on religious communities, or do you only care about Christianity and it's downward trend in attendance.

"Something else is now destabilizing families, too. Increasingly, young people themselves are choosing to cut of family members"

OH MY GOD FREYA SOME PEOPLE ARE ABUSIVE AND WE DON'T NEED TO MAKE EXCUSES TO KEEP THEM IN OUR LIVES EVEN IF THEY ARE FAMILY

"Attitudes have also changed. By the late 2010s, divorce was seen not only as acceptable in some situations but desirable."

What kind of trolly problem is this, are we advocating for staying in unhappy or potentially abusive relationships?

"When friends did come for sleepovers, we took selfies for Facebook, we posted anonymous questions on Ask.fm, we sat side by side, scrolling."

I won't deny having done this a little in the early to mid 2010s when social media was fairly new but tbh this sounds like a you problem cause this got old for me and my friends fast and we went back to watching movies and staying up to late complaining about teachers.

"Girls may even become convinced that they need medical intervention. Some have begun hormone treatments that can lead to a loss of fertility, sometimes irreversible. Double mastectomies have also been performed on girls as young as twelve."

What in the conservative white mans podcast. I'm going to throw this book out a window.

Oh cool and now we are calling Gender Dysphoria a trend

"We are the most medicated generation of girls and young women in history. For every surge of anxiety, sadness, panic, or social awkwardness, we can be prescribed a pill."

Seeing as we used to institutionalize and lobotomize women for basic emotions and didn't take the concern of women's health remotely seriously until the last like 30 years this does not feel like the flex you think it is.

“Even if they do help some girls, SSRIs still come with serious risks”

all medications have side effects, are we seriously using this section to vilify therapy and medication?????

"Instead of totally depending on men, many of us now fear and resent all men"

ummm yeah, because sure not all men but yes ANY man.......

maybe i'm reading too far into it but i'm not loving the vibes at this moment.

the dedication page being "To Evan, who showed me I was worth more" already has me a little icked

the people who talk about this audiobook being unbelievably good are so right my god, this man narrates so well and this writing slaps

just went and saw the movie again and was mentally pointing shit out that i remembered from the books lol

ROCKYS HERE BABBYYYYYY

good god this shit is in fact addictive


As a movie watcher first, I'm missing my boy Carl but I'm also liking getting Dimitri. Wins and losses I guess

shout out to new solar systems

Watched the movie like the day after it released and immediately found this to be my new hyper fixation so now I'm listening to the audiobook on recommendation from my parents lol

On Pause: my copy got yoinked on Libby but I was stalling a bit anyhow, will try to revisit this once it comes back to me.