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(view spoiler)[Linda, it means a lot that you would share this with me. Sending my love and condolences.
I will say, right off the bat, I have never lost a child.
The grief in this book came from a mixture of my own experiences with depression, my fears surrounding death, and wondering (quite obsessively) how I would live if one of my two children died. It's something I've thought about for years. Every time one of them fell ill, or hurt themselves, even in the most beautiful moments - a birthday, watching a school play - death would be there in some form.
These things, plus my imagination as a writer. It's my job to sink into other lives, to be hypersensitive to the emotions and stories around me, and to express something true.
Hearing that I've gone some way towards describing the experience, that's everything for me.
Wishing you all the very best. (hide spoiler)]
I will say, right off the bat, I have never lost a child.
The grief in this book came from a mixture of my own experiences with depression, my fears surrounding death, and wondering (quite obsessively) how I would live if one of my two children died. It's something I've thought about for years. Every time one of them fell ill, or hurt themselves, even in the most beautiful moments - a birthday, watching a school play - death would be there in some form.
These things, plus my imagination as a writer. It's my job to sink into other lives, to be hypersensitive to the emotions and stories around me, and to express something true.
Hearing that I've gone some way towards describing the experience, that's everything for me.
Wishing you all the very best. (hide spoiler)]
Ben Reeves
It'd certainly be a good start. Thank you for reading.
Ben Reeves
Thanks, Isreal. Actually, if I remember rightly, it was the other way around. About a year before writing this book, I was in a particularly depressed state of mind, walking to work, and I had the sudden realisation that one day I will be on my deathbed, and when that day comes, I would give anything to return to this moment. The realisation was like a gift. So I tried to express that in those words, and I sent the passage to my wife.
At some point, I realised it would be the perfect ender for this book.
At some point, I realised it would be the perfect ender for this book.
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