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“Wisdom starts when you know yourself. You will realise that everything aligns itself perfectly when you live your truth, break limiting habits and challenge yourself daily.”
― Itayi Garande

“You are free to the choice that you want, but you are not free from the consequences of that choice. That choice you make today may break or make your family in future.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“A newspaper article that I read recently concluded that people are dying because of what they are eating. This article was talking about diets. Some inner voice inside me said even more people are dying because of what is eating them – the toxic relationships that they are keeping and the family problems that they are not resolving.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Living your dreams, changing your behaviours and overcoming negative habits is challenging. However, when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“We have to train our mind to see the good in everything, the positive. If you fight with a family member, there is something to learn from it, but you may have to find what it is that you have to learn from that experience. You have to exercise your mind to do that. As the thought energy flows into our mind, we decide what we are going to think.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You are on earth to express greatness in your form, not anyone else’s. You are born for a reason. You have to find out what that reason is. This is not easy because you have to dig deep into your mind and soul to know your true purpose. Sometimes that creates a misalignment with those you love”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You acquire a higher level of consciousness that helps your find your true purpose and resolve your family problems by letting go of negative programming, raising your level of self-esteem, becoming more assertive, and creating more love, trust, and enjoyment in your life.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You cannot simply leave your success to chance. Find someone who allows you to see the hope inside yourself and make them your mentor. This person will empower you to see a possible future, and believe that it can be obtained.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Trust your journey, stay in your lane, and change your attitude when times get tough.”
― Itayi Garande, Reconditioning: Change your life in one minute

“We all have a capacity to resurrect ourselves, resurrect our dreams, find our true purpose and create harmony with our family members. Be willing to learn, to reach out to someone who can help you. Be willing to find someone to hold your hand, to take you to the next stage.”
― Itayi Garande

“The number one skill we can ever acquire is the ability to use our mind to create possibilities for our lives, and to resolve problems. This is very important because without the control of our mind, we follow other people’s minds and actions, and not ours. Then we fall and we fail.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“The outer world reflects what our inner world is going through. I have learnt that other people’s perception of us is a reflection of them; our response to them is an awareness of us.”
― Itayi Garande, Shattered Heart: Overcoming Death, Loss, Breakup and Separation

“Fake friends drill holes under your boat and destroy your relationship that could otherwise have been great. They will pretend that they love you, yet they are secretly working overtime on your downfall. It’s up to you to know and understand the real reasons why you keep certain people in your life. It’s never too late to get rid of dead wood.”
― Itayi Garande, Shattered Heart: Overcoming Death, Loss, Breakup and Separation

“Even after the most tragic death, the meanest divorce and the worst breakup, it is possible to heal over time.”
― Itayi Garande, Shattered Heart: Overcoming Death, Loss, Breakup and Separation

“Do not be waylaid by a toxic family Whatsapp group. You fought hard to emerge as your own person in real life. Do not succumb to this new medium that replicates all the sad, toxic hierarchies of broken families. Walk out. Do it now.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“If you are not aware of something, you are not actively directing the process. If you are not visualising a great family relationship, you are not actively participating in making it reality.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“If you cannot forgive others, you break the bridge over which you must pass yourself. Make sure you are always building bridges and not walls because those walls may be blocking your progress.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“What others say or do is a projection of their own dreams and their own insecurities. Once you fully realise that, you can let go and begin to focus on your own dreams and succeed.”
― Itayi Garande, Reconditioning: Change your life in one minute

“Success is only measured through struggle and anything that is wearing you down today should be your source of inspiration-lack of money, joblessness, health, relationships. If you had it all, what would you strive for?”
― Itayi Garande, Reconditioning: Change your life in one minute

“You create your life by the choices you make every single day. The difference between a great life and a mediocre one is based on how many choices you make every day that are deliberate.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Life's true wonders unfold when we dare to shift our minds and embrace the transformative dance of paradigm change.”
― Itayi Garande, Paradigm Shift: Change Your Mindset and Live the Life of Your Dreams

“Find something that will make you happy and do it every day. Make feeling good your new religion.”
― Itayi Garande, Reconditioning: Change your life in one minute

“Life is a big puzzle; put all your pieces together while you still have the opportunity to do so. Or regret it forever.”
― Itayi Garande, Reconditioning: Change your life in one minute

“Many people will abandon you, but always make sure that you do not abandon yourself. That is the ultimate act of self–betrayal. Be kind and considerate to yourself because the signs of pain and struggle will be forever etched in your heart and on your face and they will repel any person that comes into your life.”
― Itayi Garande, Shattered Heart: Overcoming Death, Loss, Breakup and Separation

“And, until the pain of remaining the same is worse than the resistance of change, you will remain the same, defeated, dejected, frustrated and unable to move on or see opportunities in front of you. You remain the prisoner of the collective idea as opposed to your own.”
― Itayi Garande, Reconditioning: Change your life in one minute

“Let’s embrace the beauty of our choices, let's make them wisely and with intention and let's use them to create a life that we're proud of and a world that we're grateful to be a part of.”
― Itayi Garande, Paradigm Shift: Change Your Mindset and Live the Life of Your Dreams

“Everyone has a paradigm that defines his or her reality. This paradigm is created, largely, by society. So it is limited because it does not include our mind and soul’s desires.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Families are organisations just like any organisation. Families need to have goals too. Every member of this organisation must be able to contribute to the family’s benefit, not compete to the family’s detriment. When the family has unified goals in addition to each member’s personal objectives, family relationships are smoother. Goals promote unity and cooperation and help each member to enjoy the fruits of the whole family’s efforts.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“The mind is rich with possibilities for fulfilment, but you decide to dwell on the limited horizons and paradigms that you are used to, the societal imprint. You do not tap into exactly what your mind and your soul wants, so you live the life that is imposed on you, not the life that you are meant to live. You live the life of pleasing others, life of seeking acceptance not fulfilment.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You have to have self-respect and faith in yourself to cultivate the courage to commit to your endeavours even when no one, including family members, is by your side and neutralizing the negative influences in your life.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life