Bonnie M. Kaye > Quotes

“What the wife doesn’t know is that her husband’s need for men was always greater than his need for her, and that his sexual desire for his wife was much more emotional than physical. Ironically, if there is a common personality trait among wives of gay men, it is the fact that they are usually more supportive and understanding while being less demanding than other women. This is what attracts gay men to them—their belief that their wives’ accepting personalities will extend to their hidden homosexuality if the truth does get out.”
― Bonnie M. Kaye, The Gay Husband Checklist for Women Who Wonder

“I surveyed 350 gay men and asked all of them the same question: “If you could take a pill tonight that would make you straight by morning, would you take it?” I received a resounding “yes” from 337 of those surveyed. Ten of them were not sure, and three said no. The overwhelming response came not out of shame, but out of a sense of reality.”
― Bonnie M. Kaye, The Gay Husband Checklist for Women Who Wonder 2nd edition by Kaye, Bonnie (2008) Paperback