Rifa Coolheart > Quotes

“When things go wrong, people often look for someone else to blame instead of accepting responsibility. Pointing fingers is easier than acknowledging the truth.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“While staring at him, Laurie sighed deeply and said, "See Ethan, Love isn't always about flowers and chocolates, maybe it's about sacrifices or giving everything you're willing to offer to see your lover happy."

As she continued, she closed her eyes "Others couldn't since they weren't their lovers, but some people were able to. Since you ultimately mean nothing to those who mean the fucking world to you, it hurts to witness other people suffer while being unable to provide comfort."

Ethan immediately stood up and kneeled in front of Laurie as she cried angrily "I know! Laurie, I apologize. Because of how much you mean to me, that is why I came here today.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“I touched her in intimate areas as I spoke to her

Without lying beside her, I descended upon her thoughts

Slowly sliding my writing over her soggy voracious soul

Until she let down her guard and allowed me to penetrate deeply into her lovely mind.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Sometimes we make the wrong decisions

It's no big deal

We can't make decisions based on fear and the possibility of what might happen

Not everyone will like you

It's no big deal

The most important thing is to be yourself and to be proud of it

There may be times when life seems like a dark tunnel that never ends

It's no big deal

It's just a matter of moving forward until you reach your goal

Everyone has their own secret sorrows

It's no big deal

You can only be happy if you are true to yourself”
― Rifa Coolheart

“At some point in life, you will realize that a substantial majority of people in the world will
slowly and surely start living in the way they
once hated the most. That's why being able to stay true to yourself is a very happy thing.

CHERISH IT!”
― Rifa Coolheart

“There will be a time when you and your partner wouldn't understand each other, and it will be hard to get along. You'll start to learn things about and from each other and eventually love each other no matter your differences, but those things come with time and patience. You can't give up on something that hasn't started yet.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Narcissism is a one-way road that leads to a dead-end of self-absorption.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“I struggle to speak from my heart because I've been taught to silence my emotions. I've been conditioned to think my opinion doesn't matter and no one wants to hear it. But that's not true. That's not how I should conduct myself moving forward I'm going to surround myself with people who want to check in on me, and who genuinely care about my well-being.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“In this world, there will always be truths that will be covered. There will always be wrongdoings that we need to right ourselves.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Tell you what? Never love someone expecting them to return your love. That doesn't happen in reality. Love is innocent and pristine; it just happens; you cannot choose whom to love. It doesn't matter if they don't love you; nonetheless, you must at least express your feelings to them in order for both of you to be happy.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“As we have met, so must we part.”
― Rifa Coolheart, I Am Me, Not The Me You Think I Am

“What about happiness?
What about joy?
What about passion?

These are the intangible aspects of life that can't be obtained through a mere piece of paper.

There are individuals who continue to exist merely because they fear death. They are often told that their true aspirations are unattainable. They are told that pursuing their dreams won't provide sufficient monetary rewards, won't cultivate good morals, and won't guarantee a secure future. But is that all we desire? Is our sole purpose to study until the end of our days? It appears that all we do is engage in education, yet we fail to grasp the bigger picture.

To truly live is to experience happiness, not just to accumulate wealth or strive for a secure future. It's about having the freedom to pursue our desires and ambitions. We have our entire lives to reach that point. However, we must acknowledge that our futures can never be entirely secure, as everything can change in an instant.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“I watched her packed up and walking away. I moved to the window and sat there admiring the garden. As soon as I heard the door open, Raniel entered.

"Emily?"

What brings you here, Raniel?

"I wanted to check on you," the she said.

"Thank you, I'm OK."

She gave me a teary-eyed look.

"Emily, why are you acting so distant from me when I genuinely want to be with you?"

"RanieI... I apologize if I'm not behaving like the characters in fairy tales. It's not like me at all."

"So your not at least going to try?"

“I'll try to love you, but I need some time, I swear.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“The difficulty of objective arises when we anticipate things to happen without good intentions. If we understand that our objectives will bring us what we expect, then we should set ourselves up for disappointment.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Each meeting leads to a parting, which is why meeting someone is such a precious experience. There is no need to fear saying goodbye, even if it occurs tomorrow. Instead, let us not allow it to weigh us down and cause us to miss out on something truly valuable.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Anyone who trades their efforts for payment is worth being valued by others. We shouldn't discriminate against them. You can choose not to buy from them. But what's wrong with the person who sold it?”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Do you feel butterflies... like when you're around me?" Jay questioned her.

"Honestly... yeah, anytime I'm around you, I feel like my heart's beating fast. I get nervous, Jay. I think..."

Nasara was trying to find the words.

Jay started blushing. He couldn't believe that Nasara was feeling the same way.

"I think I gotta throw up," Nasara ended up saying, getting off the bench and rushing to a bathroom.

Jay just sat there, giving her a "Why the hell am I here?" expression.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Instead of sharing my inner thoughts with others, I tend to keep them to myself. I don't want to put a burden on anyone else with my feelings, so I usually just push them to the side and wait until they build up to the point of explosion. If I do open up to someone and share my emotions, it's a sign that I've been holding them in for too long.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“I don't want to give up on him.

"No! All you need is to love someone, it's not always easy, but if you really love them, you'll fight for them.

Alisha was silent. She knew her best friend was right, but she was reluctant to admit it.

"Hey, I heard it somewhere... love isn't always perfect, it's not a fairy tale, it's not easy."

"Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go," Kelvis smiled sweetly as he spoke. Love is an hour, a minute, a second. It is to realize that it is worth spending.

"Oh! I was preached like that." Alisha giggled softly”
― Rifa Coolheart

“There are times in life when you would realize that no matter what problem is there, there will always be a solution to that. Just be patient, be open, have faith, and be positive.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Self-worth to me is the value I place on myself as a person, based on my beliefs, abilities, and actions.
It is the foundation of my mental and emotional well-being.”
― Rifa Coolheart, Toxic Self-Love: A Guide To Understanding Narcissism In Yourself

“People pursue fame, wealth, and power all their
lives. But what a man needed the most, was someone who really loved him and treated him well for a lifetime, single-minded.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“We must not count kindness only money can be counted. Taking revenge is short, repaying kindness takes forever.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“To add some human emotions in your pursuit of prosperity, making some new friends will always give you more happiness than earning money. If you blindly seek fame and wealth in the end you will realize that no matter how much money you have it will never be able to fill up the hole in your heart. You may seem like you have everything but in reality, you still have nothing.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“If you have a true lover who treats you well from the bottom of his heart. Slogans like "I love you" are not necessary. What matters is how he cares for you during daily life.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“I've finally come to the realization that I can't keep putting others before myself.
It's time for me to take control and reshape my life. I'm tired of feeling like I'm dying while trying to take care of everyone else. It's time to say no to that shit and put myself first for once. Honestly, it's about damn time.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Hey, the future will take care of itself. You have endless possibilities and you’re intelligent, caring, and bright." Anne's words were serious.

"Just live your life right now, don't worry about it. When the time is right, you'll know what to do." She went on.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“There are four principles in life we mustn't be stubborn over, First is not to think that everything is permanent, Second is right and wrong, Third is kindness and evil, Fourth is life and death. In this life, we can only avoid two of the four mentioned.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“Life is a mystery. No matter how joyful you are, there is still a cost associated with your smiles. No matter how depressed you are, you must still pay a price for each tear, and no matter how many dreams you have, you must still sacrifice them.”
― Rifa Coolheart

“I want to see you happy because it makes me happy to see my loved ones joyful.

"Robbie!" Emily begins protesting.

"I am a person that can't be reasoned with, I'm illogical and I'm really self-centered."

"I know," Robbie sniffles. Then adds, "I think though, that even when people are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered, we should love them anyway. Because they need it the most.”
― Rifa Coolheart