Stuart Wilde > Quotes

“Each moment of our life, we either invoke or destroy our dreams. We call upon it to become a fact, or we cancel our previous instructions.
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― Stuart Wilde

“If you don't change, reality in the end forces that change upon you.”
― Stuart Wilde

“Most people talk too much, and what they do say is often just noise or irrelevant gibberish designed to keep themselves entertained”
― Stuart Wilde, Silent Power

“Poverty is restriction and as such, it is the greatest injustice you can perpetrate upon yourself.”
― Stuart Wilde, The Trick to Money Is Having Some

“Never be afraid to let people go if they're not right; often that's the only way you can make room for the right person.”
― Stuart Wilde, Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle

“You have a divine right to abundance, and if you are anything less than a millionaire, you haven't had your fair share.”
― Stuart Wilde, The Trick to Money Is Having Some

“Remember, it's Ok to get what you want from life.”
― Stuart Wilde, Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle

“People have to be secure in order to transfer their money to you. Never forget that. How you make them secure is to not come at them from above (action, yang) telling them how marvelous the product is and how marvelous you are. Instead, work on their comfort zone first, keeping silent for the most part, leading things along effortlessly by asking questions (nonaction, yin). When you do get to talk, be sure to tell them that everything is cozy, safe, and secure. People need to hear that. Work on their positive energy, and tell them about the good fortune that is about to descend upon them in these exciting and positive times. Then, and only then, mention the dumb screws.”
― Stuart Wilde, Infinite Self: 33 Steps to Reclaiming Your Inner Power

“Just because you love someone is no reason to marry them.”
― Stuart Wilde, Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle

“You're the only one who can decide what's best for you.”
― Stuart Wilde, Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle

“... you have the right to be satisfied with what you have and with what you are right now.”
― Stuart Wilde, Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle

“You are on your quest. That is exciting. If you’re balanced, your boat floats on a low tide in the same way as it does on a high tide.”
― Stuart Wilde, The Trick to Money is Having Some

“We don't want to eliminate the ego completely. Otherwise we'd be wandering around the house each morning, drinking coffee for hours, saying, 'Who the hell am I?' We need the ego to sustain a sense of identity.”
― Stuart Wilde

“Love is a quality of attention, a way of focusing on someone.”
― Stuart Wilde

“Humans need to be a little crazy, spontaneous, unusual, free-flowing, and creative.”
― Stuart Wilde, Whispering Winds of Change

“To win a moral victory at the expense of your sanity is dumb.”
― Stuart Wilde, Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle

“At every turn, give five good reasons for saying no.”
― Stuart Wilde, Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle

“The new idea is here: Control is very old-fashioned, and our societies will change gradually as people come to see that the old system just doesn’t work. I”
― Stuart Wilde, The Little Money Bible: The Ten Laws of Abundance

“If you are not comfortable taking responsibility, then just put this book down for a moment and agree with yourself that you will take responsibility, whether you are comfortable with it or not. Otherwise, you sentence yourself to perpetual struggle. Further, you don’t have to take on vast chunks at one time. Accept responsibility for, say, one or two new things. Complete those satisfactorily, acknowledge that you did so and that it was a breeze, really, and then open yourself up for a bit more.”
― Stuart Wilde, The Trick to Money is Having Some

“exhausted. Don't do that to others; it disempowers you. A little unemotional leaning in some circumstances can be okay—others may feel pleasure in supporting you or assisting you. But too much leaning, and they will vote “no.” It does not mean that you can't ask for help—sometimes you can—but there's a difference between asking dispassionately for help and constantly leaning on others emotionally, demanding that they ameliorate your inadequacy or insecurity. Thus, an important first step in silent power is don't lean. It's obvious, but most don't know it. When you're frantic for people, your needs have an air of desperation—they weaken you and push things away from you. Have you ever had a romantic relationship where the other person was all over you like a hot rash, desperate for you? What did you do? For the first few days you probably enjoyed the attention, but on day three you gave this man or woman a hard time, and you started to tow him or her around by the nose. You enjoyed that for a bit, but in the end, this desperation and insecurity bugged you; eventually you tossed this person out. When you're in love and you crave someone, if this individual keeps his or her distance or retreats from you, then your desire increases. If this person advances too far forward, your desire lessens, or may dissipate completely. When you're desperate for a deal and you lean into it, you push it away and/or you wind up paying more. It's called “wanting-it” tax. Before every deal, take a moment in the hallway to remind yourself that you don't need it. If you don't get it, it doesn't borner you. If you do get it, it will be under your terms, and you won't pay too much. Even if your natural tendency is to lean into people—because, let's say, you're a very social person—don't lean. Make that a discipline. You can be social without leaning in. Put a sign on your refrigerator door: “When in doubt, lean out!”
― Stuart Wilde, The Three Keys to Self-Empowerment

“I am serene and balanced, whether life is perfect or not.”
― Stuart Wilde, Infinite Self: 33 Steps to Reclaiming Your Inner Power

“The Universal Law is impartial. It will give you anything you believe. It will throw you garbage or roses depending on the energy you put in. You are the one in charge.”
― Stuart Wilde

“In the stillness of your presence, you can feel your own formless and timeless reality as the un-manifested life that animates your physical form.”
― Stuart Wilde