Jennifer Soldner > Quotes

“INFJs reveal their warm inner selves in layers. Any sign of judgment or harshness from another causes them to shut down their remaining layers deep within themselves, never to be opened to that individual again.”
― Jennifer Soldner, The INFJ Heart: Understand the Mind, Unlock the Heart

“Because empaths are, on the whole, highly sensitive people, the energies in which we are all submerged affect their bodies and emotions much more powerfully than the average person.”
― Jennifer Soldner, The Empathic INFJ: Awareness and Understanding for the Intuitive Clairsentient

“My words are my soul. Whether I am writing or speaking, my words are always the most accurate window into what I really think, feel and believe.  I have never understood lies, games, rumors or gossip.  Words, in my world, are always pure.”
― Jennifer Soldner, A Look Inside a Rare Mind: An INFJ's Journal Through Personal Discovery

“Because being understood matters a great deal to the INFJ, they have a tendency to be overly precise with their words. They never wish to give half-truths or omissions that may leave room for misunderstandings or wrong ideas.”
― Jennifer Soldner, The INFJ Heart: Understand the Mind, Unlock the Heart

“The INFJ is able to tune into underlying meanings and gain deeper awareness of your situation. They can feel unexpressed emotions and pick up on small inflections which others may require you to spell out. INFJs do not only listen, they hear, comprehend and engage in your words.”
― Jennifer Soldner, The INFJ Heart: Understand the Mind, Unlock the Heart

“As a person who feels at their best when they are helping others, the INFJ wants nothing less than to ensure that those around them feel good about themselves, content in their space and comfortable with life.”
― Jennifer Soldner, The INFJ Heart: Understand the Mind, Unlock the Heart

“An INFJ who is required to be excessively focused on their partner will have nothing left to offer in terms of intimacy because their own sense of self becomes absorbed by the other person’s needs.”
― Jennifer Soldner, The INFJ Heart: Understand the Mind, Unlock the Heart

“The INFJ is not interested in the subtle niceties and societal game playing.  They want to see who you are, no matter how good or bad.  They would rather see your worst parts exposed than wonder why you are trying to hide them.                Trust is everything to an INFJ.”
― Jennifer Soldner, The INFJ Heart: Understand the Mind, Unlock the Heart