Hemley Boum
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Days Come and Go
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2019
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Le rêve du pêcheur
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2024
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Little Pa
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2022
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Gaza écrit Gaza
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Volcaniques: Une anthologie du plaisir
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2015
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Les Maquisards
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2015
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Le clan des femmes
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Si d'aimer
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2014
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Afrolit Now: Short Stories
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Gesang für die Verlorenen: Roman
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“As contradictory as it seems, our societies are built on bonds and silence. Our joys are loud and our grief demonstrative. Our voices are strong and our laughter thunderous, but rarely do we say a word about our private lives. We do not have as many taboos as people claim, but messages are blurred by esoteric interpretations.
Abi is in tune with her era. My grandson, Max, even more so. They demand answers, all sorts of explanations.
They ascribe virtues of all sorts to transparency, which they label truth, and have no patience for pretence. Where do they get this strength from, this confidence that I envy, this arrogance? We are so much more than the sum of our parts. Our grey areas would not stand the light. What world would survive the systematic exposure of everyone’s secrets? This is blasphemy in Abi and Max's eyes. I understand them. I have long thought that there are instances where silence buttresses the bond better than baneful truths. I am not so sure anymore.”
― Days Come and Go
Abi is in tune with her era. My grandson, Max, even more so. They demand answers, all sorts of explanations.
They ascribe virtues of all sorts to transparency, which they label truth, and have no patience for pretence. Where do they get this strength from, this confidence that I envy, this arrogance? We are so much more than the sum of our parts. Our grey areas would not stand the light. What world would survive the systematic exposure of everyone’s secrets? This is blasphemy in Abi and Max's eyes. I understand them. I have long thought that there are instances where silence buttresses the bond better than baneful truths. I am not so sure anymore.”
― Days Come and Go
“The expression of grief may be a key stage in the mourning process, but it is not the ultimate goal. We still have to characterise the pain, revisit our mistakes, uncover our excesses, understand our anger and our humiliation.
We will have to drain the cup of our failures to the dregs and accept its bitterness.
We will have to understand the evil eating away at us to hope to defeat it and finally find peace.
We will have to let go of our dead, unburden them of the weight of our anguish, render them justice to secure their support.
Too much blood has been spilled. Pretence is a luxury we can no longer afford.
Grieving entails this brutal confrontation between the inevitable end and life that must go on. Only then does loss fortify the community rather than impoverish it. It strengthens and safeguards the living. It enables them to celebrate life once again.”
― Days Come and Go
We will have to drain the cup of our failures to the dregs and accept its bitterness.
We will have to understand the evil eating away at us to hope to defeat it and finally find peace.
We will have to let go of our dead, unburden them of the weight of our anguish, render them justice to secure their support.
Too much blood has been spilled. Pretence is a luxury we can no longer afford.
Grieving entails this brutal confrontation between the inevitable end and life that must go on. Only then does loss fortify the community rather than impoverish it. It strengthens and safeguards the living. It enables them to celebrate life once again.”
― Days Come and Go
“Museums of primitive art are filled with masks, figurines, bas-relief sculptures, all looted from all over the world and robbed of their meanings. For those who created them, life resided not in the object itself, but rather in the spirit that inspired it. A corpse, even one artistically entombed, is still a dead body. They are no longer works of art, but simply objects. They are beautiful, whereas they should be alive, From time immemorial, humans have sculpted to magnify their gods. There is a reason why some religions are against any depiction of their gods while others are committed to the practice. There is some form of highly human insolence in recreating the god that created you, and there is a risk of adoring the tangible representation in itself instead of the discarnate deity. That is what sculpture is: both a tribute and a challenge to the gods. Some spiritualities tolerate this ambivalence, others don't. Others yet use representations to further tighten control over their flock and guarantee their submissiveness. They select the artists and dictate the dogma they should represent.
Sculpture is both the easiest and the most delicate of art forms. It is more than just hewing a form out of a compact block, or reproducing a model: you have to breathe life into It. That is not something you can learn or improvise. There is always some part of yourself that you infuse into the material. In our modern world, where art is a business like any other, techniques are taught, but the magic, on the other hand, is still a gift, midway between bliss and suffering.”
― Days Come and Go
Sculpture is both the easiest and the most delicate of art forms. It is more than just hewing a form out of a compact block, or reproducing a model: you have to breathe life into It. That is not something you can learn or improvise. There is always some part of yourself that you infuse into the material. In our modern world, where art is a business like any other, techniques are taught, but the magic, on the other hand, is still a gift, midway between bliss and suffering.”
― Days Come and Go
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