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July 28, 2026

If Your Child Has Ivy League Dreams, They Need to Be Able to Answer This Question

A new report from Harvard’s Graduate School of Education details what universities are looking for in applicants now.

Recently, a student came to me, her college counselor, and told me she didn’t know how to answer a question on her application to an Ivy League university. This particular student was at the top of her class: she had taken every advanced course available to her and earned straight

black female studentThere’s an important new application question colleges want applicants to answer. (Shutterstock voro...
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Published on July 28, 2026 04:54

July 23, 2026

It’s College Drop-off Season. Buckle Up! 5 Lessons Learned Dropping My Oldest at College

We learned a few things along the way. (Photo credit: Geist family)

One year ago, we dropped our oldest off at college. The months leading up to this mind- bending milestone were like a wild ride on an invisible emotional roller coaster. Senior year was a gradual, anticipatory ascent up to the first peak. We celebrated each senior ritual, one by one, before pausing all the way at the top to enjoy the sweeping, picture-perfect views on graduation day.

All smiles in the sun.

Then, in a split secon...

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Published on July 23, 2026 14:44

College Professor Warns: How Not to Be a ‘Lawn Mower’ Parent

It happened again this week. Several times, in fact.

I’m a university professor and my office is located directly across from the elevators. Because I maintain a literal “open-door” policy for my students, visitors often mistake me for the department secretary, since I am the first person they see when the elevator doors open. At this time of year, the same scenario happens repeatedly:

How not to be a lawn mower parentWhat parents need to do to help their college students become more independent. What is a “Lawn Mower” parent?

I...

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Published on July 23, 2026 06:48

July 21, 2026

Favorite College Dorm Room Ideas for 2026 — Adorable and Easy!

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Cutte dorm decor ideas. (Grown and Flown)

Do you have the (free) Grown and Flown Off-to-College Checklist?  It includes important financial, health and wellness, and legal things to check off your list before your teen leaves home. Download it here. 

Here are some of my best tips (and secrets…) for making your college dorm room look more like a ho...

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Published on July 21, 2026 14:52

July 16, 2026

It Is a Privilege to Let Go After Wondering If Your Son Will Survive

He didn’t die. Not the first time we thought he might, or the many times afterward.

My son, Sam, was diagnosed with T-cell leukemia at eleven years old (Photo Credit: Jenny Sachs)

I learned something I never wanted to know: surviving your worst nightmare doesn’t mean you’re no longer afraid. It simply moves the bar.

My son, Sam, was diagnosed with T-cell leukemia at eleven years old. He had suddenly lost his appetite and was losing weight. It was the summer of 2020, and when his COVID test came ...

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Published on July 16, 2026 10:55

July 15, 2026

College Packing List: 30 Last-Minute Items NOT TO FORGET (2026)

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Moving into a college dorm is a memorable experience for students and for their families. (Credit: Harrington)

Your teen may be nearly done packing for college with piles of their belongings growing higher every day. Before you load up the car, however, consider these last-minute items for your teen to make the transition to college life even smo...

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Published on July 15, 2026 12:01

College Packing List: 28 Last-Minute Items NOT TO FORGET (2026)

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Moving into a college dorm is a memorable experience for students and for their families. (Credit: Harrington)

Your teen may be nearly done packing for college with piles of their belongings growing higher every day. Before you load up the car, however, consider these last-minute items for your teen to make the transition to college life even smo...

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Published on July 15, 2026 12:01

Here Are The Best 30 Dorm Ideas You’ve Never Thought Of (2026)

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bright college dorm roomHere are the best dorm ideas you and your student might not have thought of. (Grown and Flown)

We asked our Grown and Flown community for their best ideas for dorm supplies and furnishings that their teens ALWAYS used. While you may have covered the shopping basics, here are dorm ideas you might not have considered. Your teen might not want anyth...

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Published on July 15, 2026 06:42

I Have Five Teens and I Am Surviving But Barely

I have raised five teens, and for one stretch, all five of them were teenagers at the same time. Five. If you are currently in the thick of it with one, I need you to sit with that number for a moment.

I have 5 teenagers at the same time. (Photo Credit: Erin Wilson)

I am surviving. Barely. I have learned a lot and I am better at seeing the patterns, but I am not done yet. What has carried me through more slammed doors, eye rolls, and “you don’t know anything” moments than I can count is a theory...

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Published on July 15, 2026 04:31

July 14, 2026

50 Things You Might Not Have Remembered for Your Dorm Room (2026)

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Here’s a checklist of 50 things your teen might want to consider taking to their dorm. (Container Store)

You and your soon-to-be college student have likely thought about the basics but here are 50 popular dorm items you might want to consider before you leave home.

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Published on July 14, 2026 11:46