Eileen Wilder's Blog

You have absolutely everything it takes to fulfill the dream that���s in your heart and pursue the purpose that God has for your life, but so often, we limit our results by limiting our potential simply by settling on small-minded thinking. David Schwartz, who wrote the book The Magic of Thinking Big, says that everybody, to some degree, has a disease called excusitis.

He states that ���every failure has this disease in its advanced form, and most average persons have at least a mild case of it���. What he is saying is that to some degree, you and I are making excuses about things that we could actually be doing to pursue our dreams. He goes on to say that if we would begin thinking big, we would actually start taking action and seeing results.

Years ago, I had a dream of writing a book. I think I���d had that dream for maybe ten years, but the whole time I would think about doing it, I would follow it up with this thought; I just don���t have it what it takes to do that. I didn���t know it at the time, but this thinking limited my potential and kept me from fulfilling my dream of writing a book until I learned what I am sharing with you today.

The number one excuse people have for why they don���t achieve their full potential is that we don���t think that we have the brains to succeed. I heard the other day that the greatest form of procrastination we engage in is over-researching a subject. So how do we combat procrastination and the excuse that we don���t have what it takes? David Schwartz gives us these two tips:

Number 1: You are overestimating the ability of others.

You may be looking at someone who is doing something similar that you want to do and thinking that they must be super smart or that they have some special website where they go to get the information they need to accomplish what it is they are doing. BUT��� That���s not true! You are simply overestimating their intelligence.

Number 2: You are underestimating your own intelligence.

Many times, we simply don���t realize the capability and the capacity that we have to be able to do what we are dreaming of doing. It is simply because we have not seen it demonstrated yet. In other words, we haven���t seen our potential yet simply because there is a lack of experience in demonstrating it, therefore, we conclude that we don���t have what it takes. But really, you are just underestimating your potential.

In other words, don���t overestimate what people are doing. Don���t put them on a pedestal by thinking that they can achieve something that you will never be able to achieve. On the other hand, don���t underestimate what you are capable of doing because you CAN do whatever it takes to fulfill the dreams in your heart. Take a step of faith towards the dreams that God has given to you and begin to think BIG, because you can do everything He has called you to do. Take it one breath at a time, one step at a time, and tell yourself over and over: I can do this!

Have you ever wondered if you could actually accelerate your progress?

Causing you to accomplish more, in less time, with less stress?

Maybe you have a big project you are undertaking. Or perhaps you are looking to elevate your confidence, and diminish insecurity. ��Maybe you’re like me and looking for “what to do” practically to keep growing.

Recently, I read that over 35 million��people wrestle with a type of ��“low grade” depression. This heaviness, causes untold insecurity, resulting in little to no progress with their��dreams.

While you may or may not relate to depression, in some way shape, or form, your career goals may be depressed, your motivation may be lagging – or your dating life may in some way…be depressing. ha!

It’s interesting, the medical title for low grade depression is “dysthymia���, a Greek word that means ���bad state of mind.���

But what if there was a way to elevate our state of mind, and find a clear path that��boosts our happiness? ��Surely we would accelerate our progress exponentially!

I love how the Bible gives us this key:

As a man thinks, so is he.

The original Hebrew actually translates like this:

As a man is all along in his heart, so he is, at last – in action.

The takeaway is this, IF we could��improve our mental state, we rapid acceleration of our dreams��would result. ��We will accomplish those goals. We will tackle that new regime. We will have the mind, body and life God intends.

But first, it starts in the mind.

Years ago, I had this vague, uneasy sense about myself. But here’s the thing, it wasn’t once a week, it was all. the. time.

It eventually showed up in depression, eating disorders and anxiety attacks. I thought I was just a little “different” or not as “bouncy” as some of my peers. I didn’t realize��the root was deeper.

I didn’t realize I was addicted to negative self-talk.

At every turn, with every failure, or with every step of overeating…. “you don’t have what it takes.”��

I wanted to break out of the prison of my mind, to taste something of wholeness so badly! but had NO IDEA��where to start.��I didn’t realize I needed to fight fear with a plan.

Not a complicated plan��–��just some��basic steps��I’d need to focus on to get my joy back, make progress on my goals.

But how does that look exactly?

After years of study, researching hundreds of articles and books, and now training people on the Brave Body Method, more than ever I’m convinced these are the 4 necessary steps to accelerating your progress.

I started doing them about 12 years ago, and radically saw my progress accelerate. In fact, I still do them everyday! Ready to jump in?

THE 4 STEPS TO ACCELERATE YOUR PROGRESS 1. KNOW YOU’RE HOT

The First Step, is you have to Know You���re Hot ��� by understanding that you are a MASTERPIECE created by the finest artisan in the Universe. You are not a byproduct of happenstance or even your parents – you were born with precision, for this moment in history.

By apprehending your��true worth and value, you’ll conquer insecurity once and for all.

Action Item: Write down��three of your best qualities. Extra step: send them to a friend via email and say, “I’m working on clarifying my strengths – what do you see? what would you add to this list?”

2. INFLICT DAMAGE

Step Two is Inflict Damage ��� learning to do damage to the darkness by speaking & declaring what you want by faith. Words are just for describing, they are for creating!

When you speak powerful declarations about who you are and whose you are, you are releasing life and momentum into your day, into your dreams and into your soul.

Action Step: Choose just one of the declarations on this list, and speak it out 10-12 times in one day.

3. SEE THE GOD PAINTING

In Step Three we talk all about how to finally See the God Painting ��� grabbing ahold of that bold, exciting picture of the calling on your life.

Learn to block time out specifically for Biblical Meditation, focusing on the Word, and inviting the Holy Spirit to give you a picture of His dream for your life.

Action Step: Take 10 minutes, in a quiet place and imagine your life 5 years from now -what is the calling you are fulfilling? what does it look like? Make it multi-sensory – what are people saying to you? what are you wearing?

4. START BEFORE YOU’RE READY

In Step Four, you must learn to become a person of quick, decisive action.�� The only action defeats fear and releases your full potential within you. ��Write the thing, say the speech, start the exercise program – even if it’s only 10 minutes.

Starting now – will start to reprogram your psyche and physiology to do it automatically the next time, with less overwhelm.

Interested in diving in deeper into the 4 Steps?

THE 21 DAY CHALLENGE

This��free challenge��is for those who want to

��– take their self-care to the next level��– develop a daily habit of Bible reading��– looking to get rid of old mindsets��– enrich their freedom��– secure their identity in Christ��– develop healthier habits��

While obtaining the book will guarantee maximum integration of the material – it’s not required.

Enjoy the free short videos right away and start accelerating your progress toward your goals, dreams and maximum joy!

what if, your Joy could be increased by 20%? or just 10%? what would your family and work life benefit?

What If your story was like Ali,��who remarked:

my struggles with weight are finally over – Ali

The Method was the missing ingredient, now I know God is with me.

Both Men and Women have been loving the Method

Get the mind, body & life you deserve- God’s way!

Join me for the 21-Day Challenge

I would love to save anyone, the drama and trauma I went through – so they can dramatically increase their joy, much faster.

I created the 21-Challenge, for those who want to invest in themselves, and compete – against themselves, to be their best – so they can get the mind, body, and life they deserve – God’s Way.

20 Bible Verses to Comfort the Hurting

You need comfort now. Perhaps you have had some life circumstance that has caused such hurt that you do not know where to turn. Do not fear; you can have comfort which comes from the Holy Spirit ��� He is called the Comforter and He gives peace and healing to your hurting heart.

The Comforter is with us from the moment we believe that Jesus died on the cross to pay our  penalty for sin (Eph 1:12-14).

You can rest in the strength of the Holy Spirit, and have comfort that is unspeakable and delightful.  The Bible has so much to say about the promise of comfort and peace. I pray that you find your comfort in the truth that these twenty Bible verses to comfort the hurting offer.

Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved. –  Psalms 55:22

His Arms Hold the Universe, Let Him Hold You

Psalms 9:9 The LORD is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.

Psalms 27:4-5 One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in his temple. For he will hide me in his shelter in the day of trouble; he will conceal me under the cover of his tent; he will lift me high upon a rock.

Psalms 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

1 Peter 5:6-7 (KJV) Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

God Knows Your Hurt, He Will Not Ignore Your Need

Psalms 56:8 You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?

Psalms 116:1-2 I love the LORD, because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy. Because he inclined his ear to me, therefore I will call on him as long as I live.

Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV) For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

Nahum 1:7 The LORD is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; he knows those who take refuge in him.

Comfort is a Bible Promise

Psalms 119:48-52 I will lift up my hands toward your commandments, which I love, and I will meditate on your statutes. Remember your word to your servant, in which you have made me hope. This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life. The insolent utterly deride me, but I do not turn away from your law. When I think of your rules from of old, I take comfort, O LORD.

Lamentations 3:31-32 For the Lord will not  cast off forever, but, though he cause grief, he will have compassion according to the abundance of his steadfast love; for he does not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men.

John 14:16-18 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.���I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you������

John 14:26-27 But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

Good News! Your Hurting is Only Temporary

Lamentations 3:22-23 (KJV) It is of the LORD���s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.

Psalms 30:5 ��� Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.

Psalms 71:20-21  You who have made me see many troubles and calamities will revive me again; from the depths of the earth you will bring me up again. You will increase my greatness and comfort me again.

John 16:22 So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you. (Jesus��� words)

2 Corinthians 5:17  Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

Revelation 21:5  And he who was seated on the throne said, ���Behold, I am making all things new.��� Also he said, ���Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.���

Christian Quotes About Comfort

���Thanks be to God, not���only for ���rivers of endless joys above, but for ���rills of comfort here below.��� ���   ~ Adoniram Judson

���Comfort and prosperity have never enriched the world as much as adversity has.���  ~ Billy Graham

���If you look for truth, you may find comfort in the end; if you look for comfort you will not get either comfort or truth only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin, and in the end, despair.���  ~C. S. Lewis

���We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about.���  ~ Charles Kingsley

���The whole world appears to me like a huge vacuum, a vast empty space, whence nothing desirable, or at least satisfactory, can possibly be derived; and I long daily to die more and more to it; even though I obtain not that comfort from spiritual things which I earnestly desire. ���  ~ David Brainerd

Sources:

The Holy Bible, King James Version

The Holy Bible, English Standard Version

���Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version�� (ESV��), copyright �� 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.���

 

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50 Alternatives To College & How to Choose Yourself

Here are some resources that have shaped our personal views regarding the non-necessity of college.

To your success!

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Shift Your Enviornment. Shift Your Life. In this episode, Eileen discusses the simple formula to “keeping it friendly and clean” like Walt Disney famously said—along with what it’s like to live as a “recovering messy.” You are just one pivot away from a whole new enviornment and a whole new LIFE!