Mark Waller
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The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn
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2007
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4 editions
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The Art of René Lalique
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published
1988
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13 editions
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Awakening: Exposing the Voice of the Mosaic Mind
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published
2006
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5 editions
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The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn: The Secret of Conscious Relationships
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2004
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2 editions
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Beyond the Paradox of Being Human
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published
2007
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3 editions
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Mastering Thought
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published
2010
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Mark Waller's Surges, Sags, and Spikes: Protecting Your Personal Computer from Electrical Power Problems
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published
1992
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Harmonics: A Field Handbook for the Professional and the Novice
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published
1994
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2 editions
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Is God Necessary?: 101 Reasons For A Master Designer
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Mastering Thought: Before It Masters You
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2010
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“If you're a Lion, it has to do with shame. If you're a Unicorn, it has to do with fear. Looking to your own inner state, rather than to the other person's behavior, sets up the possibility of getting your underlying emotional need met. For Unicorns, this has to do with safety. For Lions, it's about approval in some form or another. Being able to state the pain clearly, without any defense, is essential in order not to trigger the other person's defense. You want the possibility of a compassionate response.”
― The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn
― The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn
“And that is the purpose of this book. I believe that the key to intimacy in a relationship is the ability to have compassion for the other person. But compassion comes only through awareness and communication.”
― The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn: The Secret of Conscious Relationships
― The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn: The Secret of Conscious Relationships
“It would go something like this: “When I see you so angry, I feel frightened and unsafe. It makes me want to run away. But I really want to be with you and not run away. Will you help me feel safer?” Or a Lion dealing with the avoidance of the Unicorn: “When you don't respond to me, I feel rejected. Please help me with my feelings of rejection.”
― The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn
― The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn
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