Jen Grice's Blog

I don’t have trust issues. And it bothers me when someone blames me for not just blindly trusting, but instead, using discernment. It seems some people like to point out “trust issues” when in reality we’ve been dealing with people who have “truth issues!” They don’t tell the trust but still expect someone to trust ... Read More about How To Trust Again After Divorce?

“No message… is a message.” – Unknown That is something I had to learn the hard way. Being ignored by someone who said all the right things you’d say to someone you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. But words… are not always enough. The lack of a response, for no good ... Read More about The Importance of Communication (And Understanding Someone) While Dating

Before I married, twenty-plus years ago, there were only a few ways to meet a dating partner. The internet was still brand new, with only internet companies like AOL offering dating services. We resorted to the old-fashioned way of being set up on a blind date, meeting someone at work, or do you remember seeing ... Read More about Online Dating Tips for Christian Women (And The Men To Avoid)

My divorce was finalized in 2013. After working on healing, I met several men who were interested in dating me. Before you ask how I met them––several were met on dating apps, a couple live in my community, and one was by an introduction from a friend. Looking back now, I realize that all of ... Read More about 10 Signs You’re Not Ready to Date After Divorce

A large majority of the people who read what I write are women who are divorcing or divorced after infidelity, abuse, and/or abandonment. Either during the divorce process or after it’s complete, they ask me about dating after divorce. As I’ve stated before (read this article to learn more) waiting to date and healing your ... Read More about What You Should Know Before Dating Someone Who’s Been Abused (An Open Letter to Anyone Who Wants to Know)

I believe the healing journey after divorce could be lifelong. Now, eight years since my divorce was finalized, I still have not arrived at a place that I feel everything is healed and restored. My innocence was lost. As I’ve shared before, I have scars from the lying, gaslighting, and manipulation that I experienced. I ... Read More about I Lost Myself During My Marriage

Where was the support when I was going through my divorce? This is a very common question that I hear divorced women asking. No one brings casseroles or flowers after their husband leaves. No one thinks how helpful a food train or a few bags of groceries would be while you’re mourning the loss of ... Read More about People Won’t Understand What You’re Going Through After Divorce

This question comes up a lot in comments on my YouTube channel, as well as in emails that I receive. These women are being accused of being the narcissist, especially after they share with their husband (or ex-husband) that he may have a narcissistic personality. Or when they start to assert boundaries for the very ... Read More about What Is a Narcissist? Am I the Narcissist?

Throughout the years, I’ve shared how I was choosing to “parent” after divorce only with coaching clients in private. Now, that all my children are over 18, I’m free to share the purpose of “parallel parenting” and how I’ve made it work after my divorce. It is not easy to co-parent with someone who doesn’t ... Read More about “Parallel Parenting” When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work With a Narcissist

Does this person fit into my new life after divorce or would they have been a better fit for my old life? That is the question I find myself asking lately as I meet new people. This is also a question we examined in our book discussion group for my newest book, Your Restoration Journey: ... Read More about Choosing Your Inner Circle Before Divorce and After