Kitty Chambliss's Blog

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Your stomach churns every time your partner mentions their other date. You’ve read all the books about compersion, tried meditation, and practiced all the recommended exercises. Yet somehow, that knot of jealousy still tightens when your metamour’s name comes up in conversation. You’re tired of feeling this way. Maybe you’ve…

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am very excited to share my latest podcast interview with George Goulburn, who is a non-monogamous male escort from Australia. It was such a pleasure to have an open, highly interesting, and candid conversation with this lovely human. George comes across as so sincere, thoughtful, and dedicated to…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! The spark is flickering. Maybe you’ve noticed the passion starting to dim in one or more of your relationships. Between managing schedules, processing emotions, and handling day-to-day logistics, desire seems to have taken a back seat. You’re wondering if it’s possible to maintain that electric connection with multiple partners without…

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am very excited to share my latest podcast interview with Wendy Newman, author and relationship expert. I became familiar with Wendy Newman’s work while visiting some dear friends, Linda and Curtis, in California (thanks for the referral, my friends!). They knew I have had this long-standing podcast, and…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! The mask is getting heavy. Every day, you navigate the world feeling like an impostor, carefully managing who knows what about your relationships, second-guessing your choices, and wondering if you’ll ever feel truly confident in your authentic self. That constant tension between who you are and who you feel you’re…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Do you find yourself waiting for that perfect moment? You know the one – when all your relationships are flowing smoothly, when everyone understands your choices, when life finally feels “settled enough” to be grateful. But somehow, that moment never quite arrives. Nevertheless, we’ve all been caught in this cycle:…

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am over-the-moon thrilled – as well as honored – to share my latest podcast interview with Jessica Fern, a Certified Clinical Trauma professional, and David Cooley, the creator of the Restorative Relationship Conversations model. Jessica & David are co-authors of “Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships”…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Ever felt like you’re the only one navigating the unique challenges of ethical non-monogamy (ENM)/polyamory? Like your friends and family, though well-meaning, just don’t quite get it? You’re not alone in craving genuine connections with people who understand your journey without judgment. In a world where finding your tribe can…

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am absolutely delighted and thrilled to share my latest podcast interview with Lola Phoenix, author “The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy”, “The Non-Monogamy Journal” and “Supporting Someone Polyamorous: FAQs About Non-Monogamy and Allyship for Family, Friends and Loved Ones”, and host of the “Non-Monogamy Help” podcast. What an incredible…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! “Never cut what can be untied.” — Jaclyn Smith Life has a fascinating way of teaching us its most profound lessons through transitions. I recently was at a wellness retreat in the Azores, and I learned a word that only exists in Portuguese: Saudade = Beautiful Sadness; deep nostalgic longing…