Kitty Chambliss's Blog

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am absolutely tickled pink to share my latest podcast interview with the one-and-only Ben Shaw, a self-love and freedom embracing fitness coach. I have had the honor to meet and get to know Ben since 2019 (wow, almost seven years now! Holy moly!) when we were both honored…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Can you remember the first time you realized your desires didn’t fit into the traditional relationship box? That moment when you discovered that your capacity for love might be bigger than society’s expectations? For many people exploring consensual non-monogamy, this realization comes with a mix of excitement and fear –…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Have you ever felt that disconnect – that moment when you’re trying to express something important to your partner, but the words just aren’t coming out right? Or worse, when you say exactly what you mean, but somehow it still leads to misunderstanding and hurt feelings? In consensual non-monogamy, where…

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am very excited to share my latest podcast interview with C.L. Aaron, a non-monogamous co-author of “The No-Bullshit Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy: The Curious, the Cautious, and the Currently In It”, and former educator. Can I just tell you that this recent book on ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is…

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am very excited to share my latest podcast interview with Natalie Davis, an author, educator, and polyamory advocate. I’m so glad that Natalie reached out to me as a fellow polyamory / CNM activist, especially since we live close to one another! I was delighted to get the…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! You catch a glimpse of your partner’s joy after their date, and instead of feeling connected, shame crashes over you like a wave. “What’s wrong with me?” “Why can’t I be enough?” These thoughts circle endlessly, even though intellectually you know better. The gap between your values and your emotional…

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am very excited to share my latest podcast interview with Tash Doherty, a writer, blogger, and sex-positive advocate. What a cool mission this lovely young lady has: to aspire the world to be “shamelessly sexy”. Hot dayum, that’s awesome! It felt like a breath of fresh air to…

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! You scroll through social media, seeing post after post about the joys of compersion. Stories of partners gleefully celebrating each other’s new connections make your heart sink. Meanwhile, you’re sitting with a mix of guilt and confusion, wondering why you can’t seem to access this supposedly natural ENM/poly emotion. The…