Kevin Thomas's Blog - Posts Tagged "self-improvement"
All of You Needs Nourishment
A man and woman should always nurture their three selves.
The three selves are:
Your Spiritual Self
Your Mental Self
Your Physical Self
Like your physical self, all three selves need food everyday.
The three selves are:
Your Spiritual Self
Your Mental Self
Your Physical Self
Like your physical self, all three selves need food everyday.
Anger Does Not Work
From time to time, everyone has used anger to solve a problem. It feels good for a moment to curse someone or let them know exactly how you feel about them. In today’s society, we use anger so much that it has become an effortless trigger.
But there’s the paradox about using anger to solve a problem. Even though it’s readily available, it does not solve problems. In fact, it usually makes them worse.
In and of itself, anger does not solve problems. If you look through your life, you’ll be hard pressed to find a situation where anger solved a problem. If you’re honest, you’ll undoubtedly conclude that anger will not solve your problems. It only makes the problem worse.
What does this have to do with relationships? Plenty!
Think about it. Too often, we let our emotions get the best of us. We use anger to solve our domestic disputes. But anger does not work. It doesn’t work for two kids fighting on the playground and it doesn’t work well for two adults either.
We must find a way to resolve issues without anger. But anger is a uniquely personal battle. Every person must find his or her method of dealing with anger. Each of us must find our own way to overcome this dangerous emotion. Some use yoga or meditation. Others take a walk or work out at the gym. No matter what it takes, we all must find our own peace. That’s the best way to avoid the blunt tool of anger when dealing with delicate relationship issues.
From the Book
How To Relate in a Relationship
By Kevin Thomas
But there’s the paradox about using anger to solve a problem. Even though it’s readily available, it does not solve problems. In fact, it usually makes them worse.
In and of itself, anger does not solve problems. If you look through your life, you’ll be hard pressed to find a situation where anger solved a problem. If you’re honest, you’ll undoubtedly conclude that anger will not solve your problems. It only makes the problem worse.
What does this have to do with relationships? Plenty!
Think about it. Too often, we let our emotions get the best of us. We use anger to solve our domestic disputes. But anger does not work. It doesn’t work for two kids fighting on the playground and it doesn’t work well for two adults either.
We must find a way to resolve issues without anger. But anger is a uniquely personal battle. Every person must find his or her method of dealing with anger. Each of us must find our own way to overcome this dangerous emotion. Some use yoga or meditation. Others take a walk or work out at the gym. No matter what it takes, we all must find our own peace. That’s the best way to avoid the blunt tool of anger when dealing with delicate relationship issues.
From the Book
How To Relate in a Relationship
By Kevin Thomas
Thinking
One of the main reasons that people struggle in life is due to thinking like others, rather than thinking for themselves.
Thinking for Self
Take time to think for yourself. In today's society, powerful people and organizations wants to do your thinking and planning for you. This is not good.
One definition of hell is to have no control of self. One definition of Heaven and Peace is to be at one with yourself.
If you are having troubles in your life, it may be due to lack of being self conscience.
A very simple solution to most of life's problems is all on the inside of you.
One definition of hell is to have no control of self. One definition of Heaven and Peace is to be at one with yourself.
If you are having troubles in your life, it may be due to lack of being self conscience.
A very simple solution to most of life's problems is all on the inside of you.
Lies We Tell Ourselves
Everyone hates a liar, but all people are in love with themselves. This is a strange thing, when you consider we lie to ourselves more than the liars we hate.
You Must Live
If you spell LIVE backwards-you get evil
You spell LIVED backwards-you get devil
You spell God backwards-you get dog
Lets stop living backwards, and just maybe we might find PEACE.
You spell LIVED backwards-you get devil
You spell God backwards-you get dog
Lets stop living backwards, and just maybe we might find PEACE.
Rule to Investing
"There's a sucker born every minute" is the famous phrase that P.T. Barnum coined. Investing is a good thing. Just make sure the thing that you invest in is real.
Thinking About Me
There is a rampant disease in every corner of our society today. Though a vast majority are infected, it is rarely spoken of or acknowledged by the proud and ambitious. This disease is called Stress.
I believe in the universal law of Cause and Effect.
The Effect - is Stress
The Cause - is living a life other than what your creator destine for you.
The second law of the universe I know exist is the Law of Use. If you do not use your internal gifts from your creator, those gifts fall asleep and you lose access to that power. Stress takes your focus away from you and your gifts and abilities to that of worry, fear and egotism.
For a moment lets look at some social rituals we as Americans adhere to in pursuit of being a "success"".
Lets look at the accumulation of money. That is the number one goal here in America. But lets put it in the perspective of the Universal order. The Universe doe not care about money.
College education. A must have in this society, but useless in the Universal Scheme set down by God.
Being Famous and Popular- We live in an almost totally narcissistic society. Think about it for a moment. God and his wonderful Universe are aware of all and is omnipresent. There is never a need to drive to get noticed. You were noticed before your birth.
I said all this to say; if you want to remove stress, FIND YOURSELF- MASTER YOURSELF- and DO FOR YOURSELF.
THIS MAY SOUND SELFISH, BUT THE WORLD WILL BE BETTER FOR IT.
I believe in the universal law of Cause and Effect.
The Effect - is Stress
The Cause - is living a life other than what your creator destine for you.
The second law of the universe I know exist is the Law of Use. If you do not use your internal gifts from your creator, those gifts fall asleep and you lose access to that power. Stress takes your focus away from you and your gifts and abilities to that of worry, fear and egotism.
For a moment lets look at some social rituals we as Americans adhere to in pursuit of being a "success"".
Lets look at the accumulation of money. That is the number one goal here in America. But lets put it in the perspective of the Universal order. The Universe doe not care about money.
College education. A must have in this society, but useless in the Universal Scheme set down by God.
Being Famous and Popular- We live in an almost totally narcissistic society. Think about it for a moment. God and his wonderful Universe are aware of all and is omnipresent. There is never a need to drive to get noticed. You were noticed before your birth.
I said all this to say; if you want to remove stress, FIND YOURSELF- MASTER YOURSELF- and DO FOR YOURSELF.
THIS MAY SOUND SELFISH, BUT THE WORLD WILL BE BETTER FOR IT.
Stay Present
How can you move forward when you are stuck in the past? The past ain't coming back. So, why waste time and energy in the past, while destroying the potential of the present and future you?
Thinking About Self
Education's root meaning is to bring out what is within. School means to put in or train what is not there. Most have never had a day of education. The creator of the universe provided everything you needed before you were born. Find yourself.
