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Animated short film: Bao

For this edition of Things You Might Not Have Seen, I will talk about the Pixar animated short, Bao (2018).

I will confess, I had a hard time writing this blog (Not because of the animation; Bao is wonderful. Everyone should watch it!) The reason for my distraction is that my mind has been consumed lately with my upcoming novel, Sleeping Beauty No More, set to release July 17th. I am editing the final two chapters, and it is all I can think about 😍 Anyways, I will try to focus on today’s blog 😆

Bao is such a raw and heartfelt animation. You have to watch it to understand the emotional impact it has on the viewer. The story is set in my city, Toronto (so it is extra close to my heart).

A Chinese-Canadian woman lovingly cooks baozi for herself and her husband. We see the husband rush off to his work, stuffing the dumplings in his mouth as he goes. The woman is left by herself, but as she bites into her food, one of the dumplings comes alive. She instantly gains a cute companion, and is not so lonely anymore.

The lovely lady raises the adorable dumpling as her son. She feeds him and cares for the bun, who seem to enjoy the love and attention his mother gives him. They do everything together at first, like Tai chi at the park and sharing sweets, but when the dumpling sees other children playing, he wishes to join them. The mother becomes scared and overprotective, and doesn’t allow him to.

The dumpling son grows into a teenager and wants more independence. There is tension between overprotective mother and independence seeking son, until the rift alienates them from each other.

The dumpling son grows up some more (now has glasses and a goatee). His mother hardly knows him anymore. She is shocked when the dumpling son introduces his new fiancée, and wants to move out from home. The mother protests and tries to stop the dumpling from leaving, but he doesn’t listen. In desperation, the mother eats the dumpling. We see her burst into tears, crying over what she did.

At this point, the story was surreal. She ate her dumpling son?! 😮

It was confusing, but it all got cleared up in the next few minutes. Turns out it was all an allegorical dream (Similar to how the book, Life of pi, was written).

Later, the mother is in her bedroom, and her real-life son (similar looking to the dumpling though 😅) enters the room. Dad urges son to talk to mom, as she is still angry at him. They sit on the edge of her bed and the son offers her the same treat she use to give him growing up. It is an emotional scene 😭

In the end, the son and his fiancée join his mother and father in making dumplings together as a family.

Bao is a great story about mother-son relationships, and about family. The animation is a touching tribute to parenthood.

Thank you for reading today’s blog post. I hope that you discovered something new today 😊
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Published on June 23, 2021 01:46 Tags: animated-short-film, animation, blog, family, motherhood, thoughts

Animated film: Encanto

It has been a while, but for this edition of Things You Might Not Have Seen, I will talk about Bruno… I mean, talk about the animated film, Encanto. 😁

My emotions are a bit high as I just finished watching this beautiful film. The colors, the music, the Madrigals family were all enchanting.

Encanto is about an extraordinary family with amazing gifts. The Madrigals family are the heart of their village. In fact, the village was created through the magic and sacrifice of Abuela Madrigals. On the most tragic night of her life, she found a special magical candle as a gift, which she shares with her family and her village.

In terms of the gifts, they are all unexpected: Having super strength, controlling the weather, seeing the future, having super hearing, talking to animals, shape-shifting, making flowers bloom, healing through food (yum!) plus the bonus of a magical fun house they live in. You can guess which family members have which abilities (no spoilers from me).

The songs are so fun. I especially liked “We don’t talk about Bruno” and “Surface pressure.”

So, what is the film about? The pressure to be perfect, when we are literally imperfect beings. (Why do we humans do this?)

The Madrigals family live in fear that they would let down others and lose their gifts, so they keep doing more. They can’t say no to any request, any proposal, even if they feel they are wearing themselves out under the constant pressure.

The pressure to be perfect literally causes cracks to appear in their home, until it all falls apart. Care and love, as well as remembering what was most important saves them, as it can save us, from tearing ourselves apart.

I love that Encanto is about the strength of a loving and supportive family. That it shows us how vulnerable and fragile we are without love and acceptance, be it from others, or ourselves. That without love and support, even the strongest person can feel weak, the prettiest can feel insecure, or the person with the most foresight, can feel lost.

In case no one told you, you are enough. Seriously, if someone makes you doubt yourself, just tell them, “Aisha told me that I am enough.”

Because you are ❤

Thank you for reading! 😊
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Published on January 23, 2022 07:24 Tags: animation, blog, disney, encanto, family, thoughts