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Alien Romance
Inter-species Love Stories in Science Fiction
As I prepare my second book for publishing, I find myself thinking about this topic quite a bit. As if I needed an excuse to think about alien dudes banging.
My story is an m/m xenophiliac love story between a humanoid reptilian and a synthetic human. Silas, the synth, loses the only home he's ever known and is thrust into a terrifying universe of hostile creatures, hungry tentacle monsters, and mind-boggling social conventions. The reptilian people aren't fond of humans. What little peace there is, is tense as fuck and preceded by thousands of years of wars and widespread willful ignorance. So when Loc, a big, grumpy lizardman, encounters this small, seemingly helpless human man, he's wary, to say the least.
What follows is a tumultuous love affair that spans planets. The odds are against them, and so are all the damn people, but Silas and Loc will not go down without a fight!
I am a massive fan of xenophiliac romances. If you know anything about me, that probably doesn't come as a big shocker, but for those of you that don't: hell yeah, bring on them tentacles and big sexy Reptilians and weird-multi-mouthed-oblong-headed-murder-machines. Okay, maybe "Alien" was more horror than romance, but that's what fanfiction is for, right?
My favourite example has to be the Mass Effect game series. I'm not sure that it even really occurred to me before that? I mean, besides the obvious — I will neither confirm nor deny that I've read my fair share of tentacle monster hentai mangas… But Mass Effect was the first time I ever saw something like an inter-species alien romance treated seriously. Like not just ridiculous porn, and I fell in love with the concept. The whole romance aspect of that game played a big role in the inspiration for my book, in fact!
The Shape of Water (2017 film) was another outstanding example of inter-species romances done right. I'm not sure the creature in that movie is an 'alien' exactly, but it's close enough. Xenophilia and Teratophilia are so fucking closely related, the lines for me are blurred into a gradient. The love story is the focal point of that movie, and they've even got a sex scene or two that was super awkward for me, because I had watched it with family. But had I watched it alone, it would have been right up my fucking alley.
I don't know what it is about it. Maybe it's the taboo nature of an interspecies romance, or maybe it illustrates a feeling some of us live with daily, where we don't feel quite human. Maybe we feel like aliens and monsters in a way: Misunderstood, cast out, rejected by convention, or hidden parts of us would be if we let anyone catch a glimpse of who we really are. Perhaps it's the exotic nature of it, something completely different and outside of our realm of understanding, yet safe to project upon or escape into.
What are your thoughts? I am woefully lacking any proper m/m alien romance examples, so if you know of any good ones, throw em at me!
Note: This article was also posted on my wordpress site, and on my buymeacoffee page.
As I prepare my second book for publishing, I find myself thinking about this topic quite a bit. As if I needed an excuse to think about alien dudes banging.
My story is an m/m xenophiliac love story between a humanoid reptilian and a synthetic human. Silas, the synth, loses the only home he's ever known and is thrust into a terrifying universe of hostile creatures, hungry tentacle monsters, and mind-boggling social conventions. The reptilian people aren't fond of humans. What little peace there is, is tense as fuck and preceded by thousands of years of wars and widespread willful ignorance. So when Loc, a big, grumpy lizardman, encounters this small, seemingly helpless human man, he's wary, to say the least.
What follows is a tumultuous love affair that spans planets. The odds are against them, and so are all the damn people, but Silas and Loc will not go down without a fight!
I am a massive fan of xenophiliac romances. If you know anything about me, that probably doesn't come as a big shocker, but for those of you that don't: hell yeah, bring on them tentacles and big sexy Reptilians and weird-multi-mouthed-oblong-headed-murder-machines. Okay, maybe "Alien" was more horror than romance, but that's what fanfiction is for, right?
My favourite example has to be the Mass Effect game series. I'm not sure that it even really occurred to me before that? I mean, besides the obvious — I will neither confirm nor deny that I've read my fair share of tentacle monster hentai mangas… But Mass Effect was the first time I ever saw something like an inter-species alien romance treated seriously. Like not just ridiculous porn, and I fell in love with the concept. The whole romance aspect of that game played a big role in the inspiration for my book, in fact!
The Shape of Water (2017 film) was another outstanding example of inter-species romances done right. I'm not sure the creature in that movie is an 'alien' exactly, but it's close enough. Xenophilia and Teratophilia are so fucking closely related, the lines for me are blurred into a gradient. The love story is the focal point of that movie, and they've even got a sex scene or two that was super awkward for me, because I had watched it with family. But had I watched it alone, it would have been right up my fucking alley.
I don't know what it is about it. Maybe it's the taboo nature of an interspecies romance, or maybe it illustrates a feeling some of us live with daily, where we don't feel quite human. Maybe we feel like aliens and monsters in a way: Misunderstood, cast out, rejected by convention, or hidden parts of us would be if we let anyone catch a glimpse of who we really are. Perhaps it's the exotic nature of it, something completely different and outside of our realm of understanding, yet safe to project upon or escape into.
What are your thoughts? I am woefully lacking any proper m/m alien romance examples, so if you know of any good ones, throw em at me!
Note: This article was also posted on my wordpress site, and on my buymeacoffee page.
Dark Romance
Disclaimer: This is about FICTION! The things we enjoy in fantasy are NOT things we enjoy in real life. I do not want to fall in love with a cannibalistic serial killer, I swear.
What Couples Can Learn From Gomez and Morticia Addams - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Think Morticia and Gomez Addams. They’re in love. Their love for each other is chock-full of darkness, from their celebration of mortality and danger, to their aesthetic.
I’m bringing them up first, because I worry when people think of dark romance, they think of terrible things, like tragedy or abuse. That’s not what dark romance is about. When a relationship dynamic becomes tragic or abusive, it loses its romance real quick. Though tragedy and abuse can play a part in making a story dark, when it comes down to it, romance needs to be romantic.
The Adams Family represents the camp side of it. Their morality is clearly present, even if they scare people and engage in the occasional PG-13 sado-masochism display. They care about each other. They genuinely care about others outside of their family, though they don’t quite understand social conventions well enough to show it to outsiders in appropriate ways.
But romance can go darker. In the setting and overarching plot, sure, but I think it feels more like a dark romance when the darkness is a noticeable part of the main couple’s dynamic, and feeds into the romance rather than taking from it. A lot of vampire stories are good examples of this. At least the ones that involve a love story that doesn’t end tragically. Vampires are about seduction. About giving up a piece of your soul and humanity and embracing something that is feared and conventionally thought of as ‘wrong’.
This can exist without vampires. Without anything supernatural at all. Human beings have so many taboos to play with. So many social conventions to break. So many fears to exploit. What do the characters willingly sacrifice to be with the one they love? The more they lose touch with morality, or what we see as good and human, the darker the romance can get.
Hannibal, the series, is a good example of this. Though it wasn’t explicitly stated that Hannibal and Graham were a thing, their love and obsession with each other was clear. I don’t consider this a dark romance, but I think it had enough elements that it could have become one. It teetered on the edge of one. It played with death, murder, fear, cannibalism, mental illness, and hatred so desperate and dark, somehow it twisted into an obsession that resembled love.
Love cannot exist between perpetrator and victim. That, to me, is why abusive relationships in fiction don’t count as romance. The power dynamic is all wrong. Stockholm Syndrome is not romantic.
So then why is Hannibal used as an example? Hannibal clearly victimized Graham. The power balance was way off. For me, it’s like the relationship between Beecher and Keller in HBO’s show Oz. There’s a tipping point in the relationship where the power balance shifts. The victim does something drastic to take back what they lost. They often lose more of their soul or their humanity in this, but they gain the upper hand somehow in the relationship. Their dynamic swings like a pendulum and they become equals, and when that happens, it usually ends tragically rather than romantically, like with Oz. But there was that hint of romance trying to break through the darkness.
I love this shit. I prefer the stuff that doesn’t end tragically for the main pair — I had such high hopes for Hannibal! I love it when I feel guilty for wanting them to win against the world. I love when morality isn’t black and white, but grey and splashed red with blood.
How do you feel about dark romance? Do you have a favourite example? I’m always thirsty for more, so if you know any tv shows, movies, or books, shout em at me! You know where to find me: Comment section, or twitter!
(This was originally posted on my website, samclover.com)
What Couples Can Learn From Gomez and Morticia Addams - Paging Dr. NerdLove
Think Morticia and Gomez Addams. They’re in love. Their love for each other is chock-full of darkness, from their celebration of mortality and danger, to their aesthetic.
I’m bringing them up first, because I worry when people think of dark romance, they think of terrible things, like tragedy or abuse. That’s not what dark romance is about. When a relationship dynamic becomes tragic or abusive, it loses its romance real quick. Though tragedy and abuse can play a part in making a story dark, when it comes down to it, romance needs to be romantic.
The Adams Family represents the camp side of it. Their morality is clearly present, even if they scare people and engage in the occasional PG-13 sado-masochism display. They care about each other. They genuinely care about others outside of their family, though they don’t quite understand social conventions well enough to show it to outsiders in appropriate ways.
But romance can go darker. In the setting and overarching plot, sure, but I think it feels more like a dark romance when the darkness is a noticeable part of the main couple’s dynamic, and feeds into the romance rather than taking from it. A lot of vampire stories are good examples of this. At least the ones that involve a love story that doesn’t end tragically. Vampires are about seduction. About giving up a piece of your soul and humanity and embracing something that is feared and conventionally thought of as ‘wrong’.
This can exist without vampires. Without anything supernatural at all. Human beings have so many taboos to play with. So many social conventions to break. So many fears to exploit. What do the characters willingly sacrifice to be with the one they love? The more they lose touch with morality, or what we see as good and human, the darker the romance can get.
Hannibal, the series, is a good example of this. Though it wasn’t explicitly stated that Hannibal and Graham were a thing, their love and obsession with each other was clear. I don’t consider this a dark romance, but I think it had enough elements that it could have become one. It teetered on the edge of one. It played with death, murder, fear, cannibalism, mental illness, and hatred so desperate and dark, somehow it twisted into an obsession that resembled love.
Love cannot exist between perpetrator and victim. That, to me, is why abusive relationships in fiction don’t count as romance. The power dynamic is all wrong. Stockholm Syndrome is not romantic.
So then why is Hannibal used as an example? Hannibal clearly victimized Graham. The power balance was way off. For me, it’s like the relationship between Beecher and Keller in HBO’s show Oz. There’s a tipping point in the relationship where the power balance shifts. The victim does something drastic to take back what they lost. They often lose more of their soul or their humanity in this, but they gain the upper hand somehow in the relationship. Their dynamic swings like a pendulum and they become equals, and when that happens, it usually ends tragically rather than romantically, like with Oz. But there was that hint of romance trying to break through the darkness.
I love this shit. I prefer the stuff that doesn’t end tragically for the main pair — I had such high hopes for Hannibal! I love it when I feel guilty for wanting them to win against the world. I love when morality isn’t black and white, but grey and splashed red with blood.
How do you feel about dark romance? Do you have a favourite example? I’m always thirsty for more, so if you know any tv shows, movies, or books, shout em at me! You know where to find me: Comment section, or twitter!
(This was originally posted on my website, samclover.com)
