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February 4, 2021
HOW TO BUILD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP For Guys
Give her listening ears:
One of the nature of women is talking. They’re good storytellers. If you want to get detail of a particular happenings meets a lady.
Give her a listening ear, give her your attention, and you will get her intentions. The more she speaks the more you know what is in her hearts, her feelings about contain issues. Women want guys who can spend quality time with them, and listen to them at all times. Give her your ears and you will know her more.
Don’t always act as her boss:
Men have this domineering spirit, they always want to act like the boss. when it comes to relationship issues, you’re not her boss, but her partner. A man who always acts as the can never earn her respect. Women love men who respect and honor their opinions and not Mr. Mine is always right. A relationship is all about partnership, it involves cooperation and understanding. Listen to her opinions in every decision, cooperate with her, and always give her listening ears, by so doing you will win her total trust and humility. A domineering guy puts unnecessary fear in her and this makes her spouse keep certain secrets from him. Most guys have ended up putting their spouse in bondage of fear whereby making them not to be free in discussing certain issues. Guys don’t act as her boss act as her partner.
Give her a welcoming heart:
Women always want to be in a place where they’re welcome. Make your heart a welcoming place for her. A man who lacks a welcoming heart will end up driving her out. Most women are afraid to discuss certain issues with their spouses because of fear. Make your heart a home for her to dwell, by so doing you will win her trust, respect, and lasting love. Don’t be too hard on her in your opinions be opened to her.
Give her your attention.
Don’t be too busy with the ups and downs of everyday activities and failed to give her attention. Ladies want guys who can spend quality time with them, not guys who are always away. Until you spend time with her, you can’t know how she feels, her troubles and worries. Take her out for chopping have a walk together, spend time together with her in the kitchen when preparing meals. Give her your attention and free her from tension and detention. By so doing you will have the best of her.
Talk things out: Whenever there’s a misunderstanding always talk things out, handle issues with love and respect. Handle misunderstanding among yourselves, don’t allow others to be involved.
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One of the nature of women is talking. They’re good storytellers. If you want to get detail of a particular happenings meets a lady.
Give her a listening ear, give her your attention, and you will get her intentions. The more she speaks the more you know what is in her hearts, her feelings about contain issues. Women want guys who can spend quality time with them, and listen to them at all times. Give her your ears and you will know her more.
Don’t always act as her boss:
Men have this domineering spirit, they always want to act like the boss. when it comes to relationship issues, you’re not her boss, but her partner. A man who always acts as the can never earn her respect. Women love men who respect and honor their opinions and not Mr. Mine is always right. A relationship is all about partnership, it involves cooperation and understanding. Listen to her opinions in every decision, cooperate with her, and always give her listening ears, by so doing you will win her total trust and humility. A domineering guy puts unnecessary fear in her and this makes her spouse keep certain secrets from him. Most guys have ended up putting their spouse in bondage of fear whereby making them not to be free in discussing certain issues. Guys don’t act as her boss act as her partner.
Give her a welcoming heart:
Women always want to be in a place where they’re welcome. Make your heart a welcoming place for her. A man who lacks a welcoming heart will end up driving her out. Most women are afraid to discuss certain issues with their spouses because of fear. Make your heart a home for her to dwell, by so doing you will win her trust, respect, and lasting love. Don’t be too hard on her in your opinions be opened to her.
Give her your attention.
Don’t be too busy with the ups and downs of everyday activities and failed to give her attention. Ladies want guys who can spend quality time with them, not guys who are always away. Until you spend time with her, you can’t know how she feels, her troubles and worries. Take her out for chopping have a walk together, spend time together with her in the kitchen when preparing meals. Give her your attention and free her from tension and detention. By so doing you will have the best of her.
Talk things out: Whenever there’s a misunderstanding always talk things out, handle issues with love and respect. Handle misunderstanding among yourselves, don’t allow others to be involved.
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LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT IS GOOD BUT LOVE AT FIRST SAT IS THE BEST
Love, at first sight, is good, but love at first-sat is the best. In this modern generation, young guys/ladies go for what they can see outside, such as features, looks, beauty, and shapes forgetting that nothing lasts forever. When they see a beautiful status, they become attracted to it and go for it. The following day when they see another fellow they left the first and go for it. Beauty fades with time. Don’t be moved at love, at first sight, be moved by love at first sat.
Before falling in love first sit down and consider if you can spend the rest of your life with that person. This is what I mean by love at first-sat.
Don’t fall in love without first cross-checking your feelings: feelings are like the weather today it is hot and tomorrow it becomes cold. That’s while someone can be in love with a lady today and be in hate with her later on.
Consider what you want from that person: This needs to be put into consideration, before embarking on any relationship. Most people what they want in a relationship is sex. That is while they go from one partner to another looking for satisfaction which they can never found. Others what they want in a relationship is beauty, what about if something happens to that beauty, Will you leave that partner& go for another? It is good to fall in love, but learn never to fall out of that love.
Thanks for reading. Check out my next episode on married/singled journal.
Before falling in love first sit down and consider if you can spend the rest of your life with that person. This is what I mean by love at first-sat.
Don’t fall in love without first cross-checking your feelings: feelings are like the weather today it is hot and tomorrow it becomes cold. That’s while someone can be in love with a lady today and be in hate with her later on.
Consider what you want from that person: This needs to be put into consideration, before embarking on any relationship. Most people what they want in a relationship is sex. That is while they go from one partner to another looking for satisfaction which they can never found. Others what they want in a relationship is beauty, what about if something happens to that beauty, Will you leave that partner& go for another? It is good to fall in love, but learn never to fall out of that love.
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Before falling in love first sit down and consider if you can spend the rest of your life with that person. This is what I mean by love at first-sat.
Don’t fall in love without first cross-checking your feelings: feelings are like the weather today it is hot and tomorrow it becomes cold. That’s while someone can be in love with a lady today and be in hate with her later on.
Consider what you want from that person: This needs to be put into consideration, before embarking on any relationship. Most people what they want in a relationship is sex. That is while they go from one partner to another looking for satisfaction which they can never found. Others what they want in a relationship is beauty, what about if something happens to that beauty, Will you leave that partner& go for another? It is good to fall in love, but learn never to fall out of that love.
Thanks for reading. Check out my next episode on married/singled journal.
Before falling in love first sit down and consider if you can spend the rest of your life with that person. This is what I mean by love at first-sat.
Don’t fall in love without first cross-checking your feelings: feelings are like the weather today it is hot and tomorrow it becomes cold. That’s while someone can be in love with a lady today and be in hate with her later on.
Consider what you want from that person: This needs to be put into consideration, before embarking on any relationship. Most people what they want in a relationship is sex. That is while they go from one partner to another looking for satisfaction which they can never found. Others what they want in a relationship is beauty, what about if something happens to that beauty, Will you leave that partner& go for another? It is good to fall in love, but learn never to fall out of that love.
Thanks for reading. Visit our website for more
https://dev-wisdom-ogbe.pantheonsite.io
WOMEN ARE KNOWN FOR HOME BUILDING
A wise woman builds her home but the foolish pulls it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1
How well are you building your home? To build a happy home successfully, a woman has a major role to play.
Oftentimes, as a career woman, you return from the office or private business feelings so tired due to the stress of the day but you still have to carry out your responsibility at home.
~Women spelled Mother and not murder
As a woman, you need to be accommodative. This means patience, perseverance, and tolerance. Your role as a woman is to be a mother first to yourself, your husband, and then your children. You can see that the responsibilities of a woman are far much greater than that of a man.
You as a woman learn can either build your home or murder it.
So many women have murdered their marriage through their attitudes and misconduct instead of them to mother it.
~Women spelled help-mate and not Head-mate
As a woman, your duty and responsibility are to assist your husband. Most guys are not organized, it is their nature anyway. Guys don’t have much patience as do ladies, you’re created to help, support, and guide him in all his activities as regards the home matter. Your duty is to be a helpmate and not a head-mate whereby sharing equal rights with him. Be submissive and respectful as a woman to your husband and your children will grow up to copy such acts from you, and will apply the same in their home as they grow up.
~Women spelled comfort and not war front.
As a woman, your duty is to comfort your home whenever there’s a dispute or misunderstanding. Men love to be in a peaceful atmosphere. After much working all day your man needs comfort and not war-front. Give him a smile and a welcoming embrace.
~Women are known for smiles.
Be joyful and your home will be joyful, keep the smile there as a woman no matter the situation or circumstances you may be going through.
~women are known for forgiveness
Be ready to forgive, forgive, forgive and forgive. This will help to build your home. Never you remain you man of a past incident or keep bring the past incident to the table front.
Have a blissful married life, for those who are yet to marry may God give you a perfect match in Jesus' name.
Thanks for reading you can visit our website for more by clicking on the link below.
https://dev-wisdom-ogbe.pantheonsite.io
How well are you building your home? To build a happy home successfully, a woman has a major role to play.
Oftentimes, as a career woman, you return from the office or private business feelings so tired due to the stress of the day but you still have to carry out your responsibility at home.
~Women spelled Mother and not murder
As a woman, you need to be accommodative. This means patience, perseverance, and tolerance. Your role as a woman is to be a mother first to yourself, your husband, and then your children. You can see that the responsibilities of a woman are far much greater than that of a man.
You as a woman learn can either build your home or murder it.
So many women have murdered their marriage through their attitudes and misconduct instead of them to mother it.
~Women spelled help-mate and not Head-mate
As a woman, your duty and responsibility are to assist your husband. Most guys are not organized, it is their nature anyway. Guys don’t have much patience as do ladies, you’re created to help, support, and guide him in all his activities as regards the home matter. Your duty is to be a helpmate and not a head-mate whereby sharing equal rights with him. Be submissive and respectful as a woman to your husband and your children will grow up to copy such acts from you, and will apply the same in their home as they grow up.
~Women spelled comfort and not war front.
As a woman, your duty is to comfort your home whenever there’s a dispute or misunderstanding. Men love to be in a peaceful atmosphere. After much working all day your man needs comfort and not war-front. Give him a smile and a welcoming embrace.
~Women are known for smiles.
Be joyful and your home will be joyful, keep the smile there as a woman no matter the situation or circumstances you may be going through.
~women are known for forgiveness
Be ready to forgive, forgive, forgive and forgive. This will help to build your home. Never you remain you man of a past incident or keep bring the past incident to the table front.
Have a blissful married life, for those who are yet to marry may God give you a perfect match in Jesus' name.
Thanks for reading you can visit our website for more by clicking on the link below.
https://dev-wisdom-ogbe.pantheonsite.io
DON’T MARRY THE ADMIRE, ADMIRED THE MARRIED
Without admiration, love fades & bitterness takes its place. There are several levels of admiration when we first meet someone we are interested in, we most likely admire them for superficial reasons, like their sense of style-that admiration shifts from the exterior to the interior.
~ Every lady wants admiration: When a lady is gorgeously dressed, she will do all she can to get attention when that attention is not given to her, it pains her more than anything in the world. This thought runs through her mind, “am I not beautify
l enough. Why am I been hated, am I not good looking enough? But when she is admired her mood all through that day will be great with some great thoughts in her mind.
When you don’t admire your spouse they will be prey to those who admire them.
As a counselor, I took out time to interact with people who cheated on their partners and found one thing in common:
They don’t feel loved by their partner.
They've been neglected by their partner.
They don’t feel admired by their partner as it was before they got married.
They feel lonely, no fun at home, they’re like two separated beings.
They don’t feel special or treated with respect by their partner.
These and among others, they told me when counseling them.
I love you, you’re beautiful, am proud of you, is far bigger than a million cash you give to your spouse on monthly basis. Have you imagine some ladies who got married to a wealthy guy who gives them everything they need, but still went on cheating on their spouse. The reason is that money can not speak. She wants to be admired. When she finds that admiration outside, from some other guys she goes for it.
Are you a married man or lady don’t go for the admire, admired the one you’re married to.
~Compliment: Everyone in one way or the other, wants to be complimented, no matter how little it may be. Learn to compliment one another. Thanks darling goes a long way to make your partner feel special. Welcome back darling or honey it makes them know you care. How was your day at work, makes them know you’re concerned. Thanks for being a wonderful spouse, this they want to hear. Compliment one another, even for little things not only for bigger things.
~Attention: Your spouse wants attention, they want someone to listen and hear them out. Women are known for talking, give your spouse an open ear, allow her to express how she feels. Whenever she needs a shoulder to rest on being there for her. Most ladies seek companionship that’s while they went into marriage, after marriage, they found themselves still lonely, because the man they love is not always there for them.
~Respect: Respect is reciprocal, if you need respect from your spouse give them respect. The respect you give is the respect you will receive in return.
~Ladies admire your man, make him feel special always, treat him with respect and honor.
~ sweet words can win a lady’s heart as quick as anything. If you don’t want others to win her away from you, then try as much as possible to always win her with your words.
In conclusion, if you don’t admire that person you once acquired, others will admire them and they will sweep out of your hands.
Visit our website for more.
https://dev-wisdom-ogbe.pantheonsite.io
~ Every lady wants admiration: When a lady is gorgeously dressed, she will do all she can to get attention when that attention is not given to her, it pains her more than anything in the world. This thought runs through her mind, “am I not beautify
l enough. Why am I been hated, am I not good looking enough? But when she is admired her mood all through that day will be great with some great thoughts in her mind.
When you don’t admire your spouse they will be prey to those who admire them.
As a counselor, I took out time to interact with people who cheated on their partners and found one thing in common:
They don’t feel loved by their partner.
They've been neglected by their partner.
They don’t feel admired by their partner as it was before they got married.
They feel lonely, no fun at home, they’re like two separated beings.
They don’t feel special or treated with respect by their partner.
These and among others, they told me when counseling them.
I love you, you’re beautiful, am proud of you, is far bigger than a million cash you give to your spouse on monthly basis. Have you imagine some ladies who got married to a wealthy guy who gives them everything they need, but still went on cheating on their spouse. The reason is that money can not speak. She wants to be admired. When she finds that admiration outside, from some other guys she goes for it.
Are you a married man or lady don’t go for the admire, admired the one you’re married to.
~Compliment: Everyone in one way or the other, wants to be complimented, no matter how little it may be. Learn to compliment one another. Thanks darling goes a long way to make your partner feel special. Welcome back darling or honey it makes them know you care. How was your day at work, makes them know you’re concerned. Thanks for being a wonderful spouse, this they want to hear. Compliment one another, even for little things not only for bigger things.
~Attention: Your spouse wants attention, they want someone to listen and hear them out. Women are known for talking, give your spouse an open ear, allow her to express how she feels. Whenever she needs a shoulder to rest on being there for her. Most ladies seek companionship that’s while they went into marriage, after marriage, they found themselves still lonely, because the man they love is not always there for them.
~Respect: Respect is reciprocal, if you need respect from your spouse give them respect. The respect you give is the respect you will receive in return.
~Ladies admire your man, make him feel special always, treat him with respect and honor.
~ sweet words can win a lady’s heart as quick as anything. If you don’t want others to win her away from you, then try as much as possible to always win her with your words.
In conclusion, if you don’t admire that person you once acquired, others will admire them and they will sweep out of your hands.
Visit our website for more.
https://dev-wisdom-ogbe.pantheonsite.io
