Jeff Jay's Blog: Love First Blog

Debra Jay, MA, is stepping back into the role of president and CEO of Love First. She is the driving force behind our programs.

Are you struggling to make sense of the lies, excuses, and rationalizations your addicted loved one keeps repeating?

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I feel like people are ganging up on me--even my family and friends. Everybody tells me I need to go to treatment. They tell me I’m out of control. But I still have a good job, and my kids still love me (even though they live with my ex). I’m not lying in the gutter. The truth is, vodka is my best friend. It’s not judgy, it’s reliable, and it’s legal. I just wish everybody would get off my back.

Dear Jeff and Debra: I’ve been told to go to AA, but I’m turned off by the use of “God” in the 12 Steps. I can’t believe in something that can’t be proven. I believe in science.-Factual Frank Dear Factual: Prove it! If you’re a man of science, show us you’re willing to follow the […]

Dear Jeff and Debra: I’ve been told to go to AA, but I’m turned off by the use of “God” in the 12 Steps. I can’t believe in something that can’t be proven. I believe in science.-Factual Frank Dear Factual: Prove it! If you’re a man of science, show us you’re willing to follow the […]

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Fr. Bill W interviews Jeff Jay on how to use love to break denial and get an alcoholic into treatment.

Alcoholic beverages are not required for any social gathering, but you should have some fun alternatives. Holiday mocktails and drink alternatives are a great way to go.

When family members are concerned about a loved one’s alcohol or other drug use, they often do the wrong things.