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Soulmate? Let’s talk about Ownmate!
My first book- “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!: Being Your Ownmate” was launched on 21.01.2021 by Ashish Vidyarthi- National Award Winning Actor & Motivational speaker. It was launched on the prestigious Crosswords platform. It was magical and one-of-a-kind. Since then, my life has changed for great (not good) as I now use the #itsawriterworld as I forayed formally into the literary world. Though, I now know that I was a born writer.
The reason is my bold take on inner work that negates any form of external stimulation, seeking external validation or a nudge that only leads to a momentary high and brings the person back to a bland ennui. I’ve always called a spade a spade. It comes innately to me. I can’t sugar-coat. I don’t mince my words and I only say what I mean. Else, I mind my own business and keep my mouth shut. I like it that way.
With “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!”, I coined the term “Ownmate” in a world obsessed with the word soulmate. The word ownmate does not exist in the Oxford dictionary as yet. I introduced the term “Owmate” through the subtitle of my book. I’m not averse to the idea of a soulmate. In fact, love flows in the very veins of my book. In fact, I’ve dedicated an entire chapter on love called- “Love, Sex & Ruthless Compassion” in my book. I am saying that before you “recognize not find” your soulmate, there is a step before that. And that step begins with turning inwards.
As one traverses this adventurous journey within, being present, aware, and accepting oneself with all that’s good, bad & ugly are the cardinal baby steps. Most of all, date your demons, make a difference in your life and others through your strengths, work on your flaws, become your best version in a world of constant App updates & versions, “rise not fall” in love with yourself, and become your ownmate.
This will make you a gift to the world, for you will become this walking-talking fountain of love creating this ripple effect of the contagious effervescence of light, hope & happiness.
Apart from coining the term, “Ownmate”, I also devised a theory called the “Opposites theory” and concepts like “Emotionally challenged to Emotionally Channeled” and “Wisdom Quotient (WQ)” with my book. Thankfully, the book has been gaining a lot of momentum and has been touted as the Modern-Day Bhagwad Gita.
So, be your ownmate! For there’s no one like or will ever be. Love!
The reason is my bold take on inner work that negates any form of external stimulation, seeking external validation or a nudge that only leads to a momentary high and brings the person back to a bland ennui. I’ve always called a spade a spade. It comes innately to me. I can’t sugar-coat. I don’t mince my words and I only say what I mean. Else, I mind my own business and keep my mouth shut. I like it that way.
With “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!”, I coined the term “Ownmate” in a world obsessed with the word soulmate. The word ownmate does not exist in the Oxford dictionary as yet. I introduced the term “Owmate” through the subtitle of my book. I’m not averse to the idea of a soulmate. In fact, love flows in the very veins of my book. In fact, I’ve dedicated an entire chapter on love called- “Love, Sex & Ruthless Compassion” in my book. I am saying that before you “recognize not find” your soulmate, there is a step before that. And that step begins with turning inwards.
As one traverses this adventurous journey within, being present, aware, and accepting oneself with all that’s good, bad & ugly are the cardinal baby steps. Most of all, date your demons, make a difference in your life and others through your strengths, work on your flaws, become your best version in a world of constant App updates & versions, “rise not fall” in love with yourself, and become your ownmate.
This will make you a gift to the world, for you will become this walking-talking fountain of love creating this ripple effect of the contagious effervescence of light, hope & happiness.
Apart from coining the term, “Ownmate”, I also devised a theory called the “Opposites theory” and concepts like “Emotionally challenged to Emotionally Channeled” and “Wisdom Quotient (WQ)” with my book. Thankfully, the book has been gaining a lot of momentum and has been touted as the Modern-Day Bhagwad Gita.
So, be your ownmate! For there’s no one like or will ever be. Love!
An Entire University In One Book: Author Swati Sharma’s Book- “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!”: Being Your Ownmate
What if you could have an entire university in one book? This is now a reality with the author- Swati Sharma’spowerful motivational book. – “The Secret Sauce Is YOU! – Being Your Ownmate”. As Swati Sharma says, “Adversity is the best university, and this book is that university. The degree you will “earn” from this university aka book is wisdom for rock-bottom is the breeding ground for wisdom.”
Swati Sharma’s book was launched on 21st January’2021 on the Crossword platform by none other than Ashish Vidyarthi– National Award Winning Actor, Co-founder of Avid Miner, Life Ignitor, Motivational interventionist &a powerful motivational speaker whose baritone and words straight touch the soul.
As Ashish Vidyarthi launched Swati Sharma’s inaugural book, he said, “I am truly happy and honored to be celebrating this victory today- A celebration of so many things that have happened in our life, some of them we liked and some of them we didn’t, but we realize that how will it be if we can actually embrace and include each one of those moments and ’emotionally channelize’ them into something so powerful and precious as this- Author Swati Sharma’s “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!: Being Your Ownmate.”
Through her book& subtitle- “Being Your Ownmate”, Swati Sharma has coined the term- “Ownmate”. She says,” I’m not averse to the idea of a soulmate. In fact, love flows in the very veins of my book, but all I’m saying is that before you “recognize not find” your soulmate, there is a step before that. That, you’ve got to go inwards, be present, be aware, accept yourself just the way you are, date your demons, make a difference in your life and other’s through your strengths, work on your flaws, become your best version in a world of constant App updates & versions, “rise not to fall” in love with yourself and become your own mate. This will make you a gift to the world, for you will become this walking-talking fountain of love creating this ripple effect of the contagious effervescence of light, hope & happiness.”
Swati Sharma has also devised a theory called the “Opposites theory” and concepts like “Emotionally challenged to Emotionally Channeled” and Wisdom Quotient (WQ) with her book. “The book’s genre is magical realism and visionary & metaphysical. The book has also been touted and reviewed as the Modern-Day Bhagwad Gita.
The book has been published by one of the leading publishing houses in India- “Invincible Publishers”. The publishing house is excited to have unveiled this uniquely motivating & insightful book for readers to help them find themselves and become their “Owmate” for life.
Swati Sharma was born & brought up in New Delhi, INDIA. She lives in Gurugram- Haryana, INDIA. Her parents named her ‘Abhilasha’ (A Wish!) as she was born. However, Swati got her first name changed when she was barely three years old since she didn’t like it! Swati carries her steel-willed (not iron-willed for iron rusts!) mother’s maiden surname. Simply because she much evolved father (A Great Man ahead of time itself!) didn’t believe that both- Legacy & lineage should be in the father’s surname only! After all, both a sperm and an egg make a life! Her father is perhaps the only man in the world who didn’t have any qualms about letting his daughters carry his wife’s surname and not his.
Swati studied Rhetoric: The Art of Persuasive Writing and Public Speaking from Harvard University. She is also an advanced Landmark graduate and Indian Society for Training & Development (ISTD) postgraduate. Swati won the National Award & Scholarship from the Ministry of Tourism, Government of INDIA for academic excellence in her Bachelor of Science in Hospitality & Hotel Administration, PAN INDIA. She is staunch learning & development professional who believes that training should be democratized in organizations just like her home country. She specializes in soft skills, life skills, and coaching.
Swati loves her runs, yoga, and music. She greatly respects and lives in the power of silence, solitude, peace and believes in leading a reflective life. She is a voracious reader and an ornate orator. Swati carries it in her genes from her father to sing and adores to absorb some Vitamin-Sea!
Swati Sharma’s book was launched on 21st January’2021 on the Crossword platform by none other than Ashish Vidyarthi– National Award Winning Actor, Co-founder of Avid Miner, Life Ignitor, Motivational interventionist &a powerful motivational speaker whose baritone and words straight touch the soul.
As Ashish Vidyarthi launched Swati Sharma’s inaugural book, he said, “I am truly happy and honored to be celebrating this victory today- A celebration of so many things that have happened in our life, some of them we liked and some of them we didn’t, but we realize that how will it be if we can actually embrace and include each one of those moments and ’emotionally channelize’ them into something so powerful and precious as this- Author Swati Sharma’s “The Secret Sauce Is YOU!: Being Your Ownmate.”
Through her book& subtitle- “Being Your Ownmate”, Swati Sharma has coined the term- “Ownmate”. She says,” I’m not averse to the idea of a soulmate. In fact, love flows in the very veins of my book, but all I’m saying is that before you “recognize not find” your soulmate, there is a step before that. That, you’ve got to go inwards, be present, be aware, accept yourself just the way you are, date your demons, make a difference in your life and other’s through your strengths, work on your flaws, become your best version in a world of constant App updates & versions, “rise not to fall” in love with yourself and become your own mate. This will make you a gift to the world, for you will become this walking-talking fountain of love creating this ripple effect of the contagious effervescence of light, hope & happiness.”
Swati Sharma has also devised a theory called the “Opposites theory” and concepts like “Emotionally challenged to Emotionally Channeled” and Wisdom Quotient (WQ) with her book. “The book’s genre is magical realism and visionary & metaphysical. The book has also been touted and reviewed as the Modern-Day Bhagwad Gita.
The book has been published by one of the leading publishing houses in India- “Invincible Publishers”. The publishing house is excited to have unveiled this uniquely motivating & insightful book for readers to help them find themselves and become their “Owmate” for life.
Swati Sharma was born & brought up in New Delhi, INDIA. She lives in Gurugram- Haryana, INDIA. Her parents named her ‘Abhilasha’ (A Wish!) as she was born. However, Swati got her first name changed when she was barely three years old since she didn’t like it! Swati carries her steel-willed (not iron-willed for iron rusts!) mother’s maiden surname. Simply because she much evolved father (A Great Man ahead of time itself!) didn’t believe that both- Legacy & lineage should be in the father’s surname only! After all, both a sperm and an egg make a life! Her father is perhaps the only man in the world who didn’t have any qualms about letting his daughters carry his wife’s surname and not his.
Swati studied Rhetoric: The Art of Persuasive Writing and Public Speaking from Harvard University. She is also an advanced Landmark graduate and Indian Society for Training & Development (ISTD) postgraduate. Swati won the National Award & Scholarship from the Ministry of Tourism, Government of INDIA for academic excellence in her Bachelor of Science in Hospitality & Hotel Administration, PAN INDIA. She is staunch learning & development professional who believes that training should be democratized in organizations just like her home country. She specializes in soft skills, life skills, and coaching.
Swati loves her runs, yoga, and music. She greatly respects and lives in the power of silence, solitude, peace and believes in leading a reflective life. She is a voracious reader and an ornate orator. Swati carries it in her genes from her father to sing and adores to absorb some Vitamin-Sea!
Swati Sharma speaks to the millions of people going through downfalls through her book ‘The Secret Sauce is You’
Being your ‘Ownmate’- preferably the term means to be one’s own self, to be for yourself and with yourself at times of downfall and at times of climbing the peak too. This is what the author Swati Sharma has to speak to the millions of people going through downfalls and to the ones who are in the turmoil of their own “demons crawling into their mindsets.”
Swati Sharma, born and brought up in New Delhi, India, carries her steel-willed Mother’s maiden surname. It’s simply because she much evolved Father didn’t believe that both Legacy and lineage should be in the father’s surname only! As she specifies,” Both a sperm and an egg make a life.”
The Book “The Secret Sauce is You“ happens to be an introspection written by Swati Sharma. She exemplifies that one can only find oneself and there’s no external force that will help an individual realize one’s value as she says,” Who can find you except yourself? And how can you let someone else be your ‘founder’? Only you can find yourself. The basketball that swoops down the hoop proves that not every fall is a loss.”
“My Father ingrained me an integral lesson quite early on. Taking a cue from the basketball, soccer ball, and the crazy ball, I learned that you’ve got to fall in love with failure… This book is the secret sauce of turning the curve balls life throws at you (unexpectedly) into crazy balls and make a goal each time you fall…” – Swati Sharma
Swati Sharma, born and brought up in New Delhi, India, carries her steel-willed Mother’s maiden surname. It’s simply because she much evolved Father didn’t believe that both Legacy and lineage should be in the father’s surname only! As she specifies,” Both a sperm and an egg make a life.”
The Book “The Secret Sauce is You“ happens to be an introspection written by Swati Sharma. She exemplifies that one can only find oneself and there’s no external force that will help an individual realize one’s value as she says,” Who can find you except yourself? And how can you let someone else be your ‘founder’? Only you can find yourself. The basketball that swoops down the hoop proves that not every fall is a loss.”
“My Father ingrained me an integral lesson quite early on. Taking a cue from the basketball, soccer ball, and the crazy ball, I learned that you’ve got to fall in love with failure… This book is the secret sauce of turning the curve balls life throws at you (unexpectedly) into crazy balls and make a goal each time you fall…” – Swati Sharma
