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July 10, 2023
Game Review: Behind The Frame

Hygge: 10/10, drinking tea a windowsill and listening to the the birds
Whimsy: Transports you through canvas and world. Gorgeously art-directed.
Game Type: Story-Driven Point & Click Puzzle
Estimated Playtime: 1hr
Platforms: PC, Nintendo Switch, Playstation, Mobile (iOS, Google Play)
Step into a beautiful story that almost feels like a lost Studio Ghibli film. You play as an artist going
about her day, readying to apply to an arts program in New York.
Through simple point and click, this cozy and soothing game presents odd little puzzles and you begin to realize as the story unravels that something mysterious is going on with the paintings and the old man who lives across the street.
A lot of care clearly when into the creation of this story and the art around it. I found myself swept up in the 6 chapter story, not ready for it to end and moved a bit to tears when the final pieces fell into place. It's a quick game--taking only an hour to complete, but very worth the time and money.
If you're looking to travel and transport yourself to a magical world and get swept up in the whimsy, I cannot recommend Behind The Frame enough. It was truly breathtaking.
or
Watch the Game (Spoilers, Full Gameplay)
https://youtu.be/PF13QO-1UvkJuly 1, 2023
Pasadena: Burlington Arcade

TikTok and Instagram are filled to the brim with aesthetic videos, promising whimsy, hygge and wonder. So when I came across multiple videos from creators touting Pasadena's Burlington Arcade as feeling like a little piece of London, I had to check it out. The location likely takes its name from the Burlington Arcade in London itself, and while not as large or grand in architecture, it does feel like a nice nod to the 1819 establishment. Arcade, I should clarify, is used in the traditional sense here, meaning a covered passageway with arches on one or both sides. The word derives literally from "arc" or the latin, "arcus" meaning bow. Which is kinda cool. Language evolving and all that--but I'm getting off track.
Most of the videos about the arcade, unsurprisingly, focused on a few key angles--which is understandable when you're trying to capture a particular feeling. The aesthetic is there--BUT if all you have to go on is the aesthetic, I personally feel you're likely to be a little disappointed. So let's talk about the meat of this location, shall we?
Most importantly--and I know you've been dying to know with baited breath--Burlington Arcade offers a parking lot with free 90 minute parking (then you're able to pay for an additional 90 minutes after). Yes, I know, all your questions have been answered, you're welcome. I think we're done here...
But I GUESS, if you wanted to know about what the arcade actually offers other than parking for some weirdo demented reason... then read on.

First, I will preface, that it does seem like the area is still recovering from the pandemic--so my notes here may be entirely superfluous in six months or less. There are a few storefronts looking for a new caretaker--and you'll also want to double-check hours before you go because quite a few of the shops do not run on a typical 7 days a week 9-5, or even M-F schedule. It would especially be a shame if you had your eyes on one shop only to find out it was not even open the day you decide to visit.
Because I am a self-admitted tea goblin, most importantly, I must outline that there are 3 different cafes in the arcade: Oink Moo (Boba Tea), The Mandarin Coffee Stand (Tea and Specialty Coffee from small roasters) and Float which has a full coffee and tea bar but bills more as a sandwich shop.
I was only personally able to try Float on this visit--which I will go into more detail later on in this article--but my lovely friend Joe, who lives a short walk from the arcade, assured me Oink Moo's Boba Tea was fantastic. In fact, prior to our excursion together, it was the only shop in the arcade they had frequented.
Among the other storefronts there is a tailor, a kimono shop, a high-end children's clothing boutique, a nail salon, a flower shop, and an aesthetician who specializes in permanent makeup. Unfortunately a few of them were not open on the Monday we visited, so we were only able to admire those shops from the beautiful Georgian window storefronts. What a divine thought though? Going dropping something off at the tailor and then getting your nails done with a tasty tea in an arcade that looks this whimsical and lovely.

It is worth noting: I adore a Georgian storefront--the great big windows feel so perfectly magical. I admit while I waited for Joe to arrive, I stared for far too long at the currently vacant #12. This is something those aesthetic videos never seem to highlight, and while I understand why, the mere possibility of what this could one day be had me buzzing.
Don't leave me alone with an empty store front. By the time my friend arrived I had dreamed up a cozy little bookshop with one of those windows refashioned into a pillow-piled reading nook. Plants hanging from the ceiling, warm amber lighting, and the soft sound of rain intermixed with music playing through the speakers scattered about the cafe. Pure hygge.
Ah, a fae can dream.

We popped into Float and cuddled up with our respective teas, and a succulent that I have decided to name Marleyborne. We caught up on each other's lives and we people-watched, admiring the sleepy bustle to and fro in the little lane. Allowing myself to sink into the moment, I confess, I did feel transported. The cloudy skies and chill-for-SoCal weather certainly helped that London feeling--so much that I couldn't help but order a London Fog specifically.

Some LA folks may loathe June Gloom, but it always makes me feel like I get a little autumnal treat before the heat wafts in for an oppressive and unceasing 5 months.
Float, appropriately named, has a light and airy feel inside. The windows allow a waterfall of natural light to pour in, giving very little need for light fixtures. The sun bounces off the soft cream walls, and light wood tabletops. A charming chalkboard menu hangs above the coffee bar, and a beautiful mural of a woman ties in the pops of color scattered about the café.
While it has no pile of pillows to sink into, I can't imagine a more pleasant place to grab lunch and either catch up with a friend, or your current book. The atmosphere lends itself marvelously to either.

I would also like to return to pay more attention to the flower shop. As we were adventuring, I did not feel confident a plant wouldn't wilt in the car while we were out and about, but the storefront does look straight out of a romantic comedy. While not the style of Flowered Up, you could almost imagine Lena Heady as Luce wandering out of the store front as you browse--offering advice on floral meanings. If you've no idea what I'm talking about, Imagine Me & You is an adorable sapphic romantic comedy, that despite when it was made, does not fall prey to the trope that all queer romances must end in death and/or tragedy. Also, befittingly, it takes place in London, so... thus we are continuing to pass the vibe check.

I have one thing to note, which may not matter to anyone else but me, but feels important to mention. The door to the iconic public London telephone does not open. I imagine, this is to keep it from being used as an outhouse or worse in the off-hours. Still, you can make a silly pose and stand beside it if you so chose and take a photo. Inside is completely empty, however, so if you're looking to attempt a photoshoot, you'll want to be careful to hide that this phone box is missing... well, a phone.
It's not terribly large, and you likely couldn't spend a whole day away in the arcade but with its proximity to the Shops on Lake Avenue, it's more than just an Instagram photo and a whimsical add to a day of shopping--and definitely to get a quick bite or get a little caffeine boosts from one of the three cafes.
If you're a coffee drinker, the smell of coffee beans coming from the Mandarin Coffee Stand was absolutely divine.
June 5, 2023
Where's the Whimsy?

A few years ago my wife was having a story meeting with our friend Shawn for the Labyrinth Masquerade.
If you're familiar with the event, you may be surprised to realize that there's a story to it beyond the basic background of the movie that inspired it. There is! And there's a new plot from year to year but unless you're part of the cast it can feel impossible to decipher it through merely dance and pantomime.
If you're not familiar-- The Labyrinth Masquerade is the largest masquerade ball in North America. It's fantastic and definitely a place of magic and whimsy--but more on that later--I promise. And I'll do my best to let you in on any story points--just so you have them.
My point is, during that story meeting, Shawn posed a question to Angelique that has admittedly haunted the back of my mind ever since she shared this story with me.
He asked, "Where's the whimsy?"
An odd out of context question, which becomes a bit silly when you realize it's about the story of one of the most whimsical events we help come to life (seriously, we end the night by dancing with a giant sparkly white and blue dragon puppet). Trust me, this event has the whimsy, it's got it coming out of its ears--one hardly need look for it.
However for the rest of my life, that question sat, mostly unanswered.
I am a devout seeker of hygge and magic. So every now and then when the world feels drab, depressing or just suffocatingly mundane, I find myself asking that same little query: Where is the whimsy? If a simple quality can bring such unmitigated joy to my day, why am I not trying to incorporate it into my life all the time?
Here I will be cataloguing that search--and I hope you'll join me in doing the same for yourself.
Tell me friend, in your life, where is the whimsy?
July 1, 2022
Donut Ask For What The Belly Growls--It Growls for Pastry

I love the look of the quintessential donut. Perfectly golden dough cooked just right, the shape, the bubble-gum pink icing that always makes me think of the best confectionaries--even though I really hate bubblegum flavored anything... other than bubblegum--SPRINKLES, I mean... who doesn't love sprinkles?
...Well, I'm sure someone does but I personally worry for their soul and sense of joy. Sprinkles are just happy.
Yet despite this, I have to admit... I do not care for donuts. I have never encountered something so aesthetically appealing and delicious smelling that my mouth just did not care for.
It's the texture, it's the taste of nothing but sugar, and after about a bite, I'm ultimately done. I think it's gotten worse after the pandemic.
We live in a fairly small one-bedroom apartment in Los Angeles--but at the start of the pandemic, it was even SMALLER. So at the height of lockdown, the only place we had to walk or move was from our front door to the 30 paces to our back window in the bedroom.
It wasn't great.
For this reason, we decided to try a keto diet so that we could try to manage things, and honestly, I think this killed my tolerance for a lot of very sugary things. I still like sweet, mind you, but anything that tasted literally of just sugar... soured with me a lot. And not in the fun "this makes my mouth pucker and eyes water" way. (This is a tangential point, but I'm fairly certain my sour tolerance went up, maybe? That or American sour candy has gotten weak. Very weak.)
This is my overly loquacious way to introduce to my fellow LA residents: The Protein Do-Cake by New N' Fresh Nutrition.

First, I'm going to clarify: This is in no way a paid post. I'm just kind of obsessed with these donut/cake things.
Second, I firmly believe we should detatch the idea of morality from food. It's caused far too much damage, and the bs of "you are what you eat" is dehumanizing and let's be honest, the biggest scam in America would have to be the diet industry.
I want to preface with this, because when I talk about the nutritional value, I don't want to shame anyone for preferring the OG donut or cake or what have you. While I personally do have a bit of a struggle with real cake or donuts (depending on the recipe) because it can often taste TOO sugary to me, my favorite thing about these is they're packed with protein and make a great pre or post work-out snack.

If I'm not careful, I can be prone to getting very shaky and even a little light-headed after cardio, but this is both rewarding for my taste-buds and my body (helping me restore what I need after a workout, but also tasty enough that I remember... to eat)
Sometimes remembering to eat is an uphill battle. And then by the time I do, it's usually something last minute that's not actually giving me the nutrients I need to recover/continue.
Steph makes these fresh every week, you can fill out an order form, and then I believe there are locations to go pick them up.
I realize this isn't super helpful if you aren't in the Los Angeles area but... I'm a wee obsessed with these things and I just want to share this small business with you.
This week I got to have coffee and a donut for breakfast. Normally after one bite of donut, I'd be done. And if I DID get to nom it, I'd be crashing pretty hard due to the sugar high.
It's a silly thing to rejoice in maybe, but it brings me joy. I mean, look at the sprinkles!
Yay sprinkles.


