A.M. Benjamin's Blog
November 6, 2025
💕 Are You Tired of Confusing Chemistry for Commitment?
Let’s be honest — dating in today’s world can feel like emotional gymnastics. You give, you hope, you wait… and somehow still end up wondering what went wrong.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing too much, too soon, for men who give too little, you’re not alone — and you’re not broken. You’re just playing by the wrong rules.
That’s exactly why I wrote my new book,
Dating Advice for Women: Keep Your Panties On and Choose Love Over Lust — now available on Amazon.
This isn’t another “how to get the guy” manual or a list of tired dating tricks. It’s a reality check — wrapped in compassion, humor, and empowerment (emotional intelligence) — for women who are ready to stop chasing chemistry and start building connection.
Whether you’re a high-achieving woman who’s tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men, a faith-driven Christian woman seeking love with purpose, or re-entering the dating world later in life, this book is your guide to dating with emotional intelligence, self-respect, and clarity.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:
✅ Break the cycle of rushing into intimacy and ending up heartbroken
✅ Recognize red flags before you get attached
✅ Set boundaries that protect your peace (without guilt or apology)
✅ Tell the difference between temporary charm and true character
✅ Attract emotionally available men who respect your pace
✅ Heal from toxic patterns and step back into your power
Because “keeping your panties on” isn’t about shame — it’s about power.
It’s about knowing your worth and refusing to trade your peace for temporary attention.
Whether you’re in your 20s or 50s, single or starting over, this book will help you choose love over lust — and finally date from a place of confidence, not confusion.
✨ Stop settling for situationships. Start choosing love on your terms.
💖 Get your copy today and take your power back.
👉 Add it to your Goodreads shelf or grab it on Amazon now!
Warmly,
Dr. A.M. Benjamin
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing too much, too soon, for men who give too little, you’re not alone — and you’re not broken. You’re just playing by the wrong rules.
That’s exactly why I wrote my new book,
Dating Advice for Women: Keep Your Panties On and Choose Love Over Lust — now available on Amazon.
This isn’t another “how to get the guy” manual or a list of tired dating tricks. It’s a reality check — wrapped in compassion, humor, and empowerment (emotional intelligence) — for women who are ready to stop chasing chemistry and start building connection.
Whether you’re a high-achieving woman who’s tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men, a faith-driven Christian woman seeking love with purpose, or re-entering the dating world later in life, this book is your guide to dating with emotional intelligence, self-respect, and clarity.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:
✅ Break the cycle of rushing into intimacy and ending up heartbroken
✅ Recognize red flags before you get attached
✅ Set boundaries that protect your peace (without guilt or apology)
✅ Tell the difference between temporary charm and true character
✅ Attract emotionally available men who respect your pace
✅ Heal from toxic patterns and step back into your power
Because “keeping your panties on” isn’t about shame — it’s about power.
It’s about knowing your worth and refusing to trade your peace for temporary attention.
Whether you’re in your 20s or 50s, single or starting over, this book will help you choose love over lust — and finally date from a place of confidence, not confusion.
✨ Stop settling for situationships. Start choosing love on your terms.
💖 Get your copy today and take your power back.
👉 Add it to your Goodreads shelf or grab it on Amazon now!
Warmly,
Dr. A.M. Benjamin
