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When it comes to manifesting… It’s not that you don’t want it enough. It’s that your habits suck.

Because remember: manifesting is CO-CREATING with the universe. Which means… You still have to do the work on the material plane!

One of the reasons why we don’t get the things we want is that we don’t have HABITS or ROUTINES that lead us down that path.

For example, if you want a flourishing business, you need to work on it every day. If you want a passionate relationship, you need habits that create sexual chemistry and rapport. If you want a fit body, you need habits to support you, like eating good food, sweating consistently, and pushing yourself outside your comfort zone.

Last night, I sat in bed journalling. I picked two areas of my life that I wanted to work on, and I asked myself the following questions…

 What do I want this area of my life to look like?

 What systems/routines are going to get me to these goals?

 What is blocking me?

What beliefs need to be shifted and transformed?

We need vision so we know where we’re going, and then we need to reverse engineer it and ask ourselves, ‘What will this require of me? What changes to my daily habits do I need to make to get this thing I want?’ Some of the changes might be minute little tweaks! But some might require a lifestyle overhaul.

The place where it gets tricky is asking ourselves what beliefs need to be shifted. In other words, what STORIES are you telling yourself every day that cause you to have the habits that are getting you the results you have NOW?

For example, if you put more energy into your work than your relationship, why is that? Is it because you think men leave you but your work never will? Is it because you believe being in a relationship spells the end of your freedom? Is it because you fear intimacy and you use work to hold people at arm’s length?

PHEW! That’s some real talk. And that’s also where EFT/tapping comes in. Once we know what is driving our dysfunction, we can use tapping to FACE it, own it, even find the humor in it. And then we can reprogram ourselves. Choose new beliefs and new priorities. Create habits that will lead us to what we really want. And the game is officially changed.

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Sometimes we get stuck when we obsess over the big picture, and we forget all the beauty right in front of us. This tapping session will help you see what’s good right where you are!

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It’s time for your Quarantine Glow-Up!

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Feeling bad about your body? Wishing it looked different? I totally understand! In this EFT tapping sequence, you’ll fall back in love with how you look and feel capable of making positive changes.

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We have a tendency to think that systems are put in place by people who are much smarter than us, so we should just do what we’re told. The truth is that systems are put into place by people who want to protect their interests, and ALL SYSTEMS should be questioned. Even better, ALL SYSTEMS CAN BE CHANGED, dismantled, and radically overthrown. There are so many things that need to be transformed in this world. It’s my hope that this is only the tip of the iceberg. Can we start to believe that we are all worthy of love, compassion, understanding, and justice? Can we start to transition to truly valuing people over profits? And can we realize that this starts with valuing ourselves, and the people around us, and our communities, and the people who don’t look like us? Yes. We. Can.

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So many of us SETTLE in our lives, accepting breadcrumbs and bullshit when we are deserving of the WHOLE BUFFET HONEY! In this video, I talk you through how to STOP settling, how to radically upgrade your standards, and teach a visualization technique to help you manifest in hyperspeed. Plus, a killer EFT tapping session to help you NEVER! SETTLE! AGAIN!

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Bored in the house and you’re in the house bored? This tapping is for YOU! I wanted to remind you that your life can be — and is! — fabulous RIGHT NOW, we just need to switch up our perspective! Let me know if it helps…

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In this episode of High Vibe Honey… You are not stuck: you are choosing not to choose. LET’S TALK ABOUT IT! Plus a killer tapping session to help you pick a path and make some moves. You’ve got this, baby!

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In this episode, we talked about… How to cope if you’re feeling uncertain and anxious because you are apart from your partner, as well as how to deal with boredom and frustration because of too much togetherness… What to do if you have a mismatched vision of what you both want… How to stay in the present with your partner… What to do if you’re feeling dissatisfied and like you’re settling… And how to get your partner to respect your alone time! (Quarantine problems, you know?) I hope you love this! If you want to learn how to rock your relationship, the HOLOGRAM HEART earlybird ends on Friday morning — don’t miss out! 

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By popular request, my LOVE RITUAL from Instagram Live! Grab your favorite essential oil, and settle in for a magical moment (or five!) with me. Be sure to pick up your copy of HOLOGRAM HEART before Friday May 1st for the ultimate earlybird package!

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