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Darlene Lancer
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Los Angeles, The United States
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Carl G. Jung, Karl Durkheim, Hal Stone, Sylvan Tomkins [author], Karen
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March 2012
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Paradise Lost: What Happened to My True Self?
The “true self,” coined by psychoanalyst David Winnicott, is the foundation for healthy maturation and expression of the individual. Sadly, for many people, including codependents, things go awry during the critical developmental period when the true self emerges. Instead, a false self predominates, while the true self recedes; sometimes, into oblivion.
The true self is not a separate part of us, b
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Codependency For Dummies
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2012
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Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You
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2014
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How to Speak your Mind - Become Assertive and Set Limits
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2012
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Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People
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10 Steps to Self-Esteem
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Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships
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Freedom From Guilt and Blame - Finding Self-Forgiveness
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Toxic Love Disorder
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Spiritual Transformation in the Twelve Steps
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"I'm Not Perfect - I'm Only Human" - How to Beat Perfectionism
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This book is a must read for anyone living with a narcissistic mate. I knew my codependent self was an issue in my marriage but did not know how to set boundaries with him. I am happy, at peace and free now. This book also helps me be abl" Read more of this review » |
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We are never responsible for someone else's behavior. We can only change our reactions. That's where we're responsible to ourselves. Codependency usua
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“When we let go of our reactions and detach from other people's moods, actions, and words, we take back our power. Instead of reactors, we become self-determined actors in our lives. We take charge of ourselves and decide how we act in that moment and every moment, skyrocketing our self-esteem”
― Codependency for Dummies
― Codependency for Dummies
“Anyone whose goal is 'something higher' must expect someday to suffer vertigo. What is vertigo? Fear of falling? No, Vertigo is something other than fear of falling. It is the voice of the emptiness below us which tempts and lures us, it is the desire to fall, against which, terrified, we defend ourselves.”
― The Unbearable Lightness of Being
― The Unbearable Lightness of Being
“Every one is worthy of love, except him who thinks that he is. Love is a
sacrament that should be taken kneeling.”
― De Profundis
sacrament that should be taken kneeling.”
― De Profundis
“Low self-esteem is like a natural and beautiful garden that's been invaded by weeds from unhealthy relationships. In recovery we pull the weeds, fertilize the soil, sow new seeds, and nourish our garden with water and sunlight.”
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Thanks for the connection. Have you visited my website? Lots of hours of reading there, too. All the best, Darlene
Thank you, Darlene, for the friendship. I am new here to goodreads and am just finding my way around www.amazon.com/author/gracegayle
I am new to the to goodreads page, well at least actively. My published books deal with healing emotional wounds. I am passionate when it comes to helping others deal with depression, abuse, anger, and childhood trauma. It is my hope to connect with others in the group who have like minds and are on a healing journey
There are nine books in the series
Facing the Darkness
God, If You Love Me, Show Me
Those Painful Emotions
Those Deep Emotions
Those Turbulent Emotions
Filling The Void
Healing Through Forgiveness
Restoring Relationships
Stepping into the Light
www.amazon.com/author/gracegayle