Wanda J.R. Prowell's Blog
February 23, 2013
Lifelong.... Benefits ! [NexLEVEL Parenting]
What Does The Church and Schools Have In Common?
CORRECT: Parents, Students, and Teachers
THINK! School rules for success is nothing more than a practical approach for Christian Living demonstrated through “The Golden Rules” for lifelong success. The “I Can Do Spirit,” and a display and support of Positive - Parenting Leadership Skills, in the Home. It still takes the whole village to raise a child.
Make “Character Building Skills for Success” your ~2013~ Focus for Summer Youth Camps, and Teens Professional Development in VBS, which will RESULT in a more successful Fall School Year. I am certain that BOTH your congregation and community leaders will "SHOWCASE YOUR DEDICATION” FOR MENTORING our (youth) future leaders of America. Adopt : “School Readiness for Parents & Children, K-12” to allow your Planning Team adequate preparation. AWESOME DISCOUNTS % are available for all group purchases.
TOPICS INCLUDES:
Home Bullying, School Bullying, Social Laws, Gender Based Undergarments, Issues & consequences for trying to “FIT – IN,” Importance of and how to obtain creditable “References,” Impact of Friends, 5 - Categories of “NEEDS” for all humans – (a parent must hear mandate for children, especially teens) and so much more...
NexLEVEL Parenting!
What was once the norms, is now THE EXCEPTION!
http://www.resolved-2010.com
CORRECT: Parents, Students, and Teachers
THINK! School rules for success is nothing more than a practical approach for Christian Living demonstrated through “The Golden Rules” for lifelong success. The “I Can Do Spirit,” and a display and support of Positive - Parenting Leadership Skills, in the Home. It still takes the whole village to raise a child.
Make “Character Building Skills for Success” your ~2013~ Focus for Summer Youth Camps, and Teens Professional Development in VBS, which will RESULT in a more successful Fall School Year. I am certain that BOTH your congregation and community leaders will "SHOWCASE YOUR DEDICATION” FOR MENTORING our (youth) future leaders of America. Adopt : “School Readiness for Parents & Children, K-12” to allow your Planning Team adequate preparation. AWESOME DISCOUNTS % are available for all group purchases.
TOPICS INCLUDES:
Home Bullying, School Bullying, Social Laws, Gender Based Undergarments, Issues & consequences for trying to “FIT – IN,” Importance of and how to obtain creditable “References,” Impact of Friends, 5 - Categories of “NEEDS” for all humans – (a parent must hear mandate for children, especially teens) and so much more...
NexLEVEL Parenting!
What was once the norms, is now THE EXCEPTION!
http://www.resolved-2010.com
Why Do Adults Disc Their PROBLEMS on Children?
UnReSolved, The Blessings of A ReSolved Lifestyle http://www.resolved-2010.com
Ecerpts: Why Do Adults Disc Their PROBLEMS on Children?.
Insecurities and distrust are rampant in relationships. It is not uncommon to lose trust in someone, but relaying that information to someone else could have a devastating effect upon the person whom you choose to report and discuss that information. Sometime adults confide in their minor children. Children do not process information in the same manner as adults. As a consequence, minor children could fall into a false sense of loyalty and lose their emotional balance in the process.
We can make it so much easier for children by being their adult caregiver / parent, and by seeking other trustworthy Christian adults for personal advice. It is very simple: Children have enough to manage as it is, and are thus not able to handle the adversities of adults.
Our ability to relate to and protect children will make a world of differences in their natural and spiritual growth and their abilitiy to handle their later adult struggles.
Ecerpts: Why Do Adults Disc Their PROBLEMS on Children?.
Insecurities and distrust are rampant in relationships. It is not uncommon to lose trust in someone, but relaying that information to someone else could have a devastating effect upon the person whom you choose to report and discuss that information. Sometime adults confide in their minor children. Children do not process information in the same manner as adults. As a consequence, minor children could fall into a false sense of loyalty and lose their emotional balance in the process.
We can make it so much easier for children by being their adult caregiver / parent, and by seeking other trustworthy Christian adults for personal advice. It is very simple: Children have enough to manage as it is, and are thus not able to handle the adversities of adults.
Our ability to relate to and protect children will make a world of differences in their natural and spiritual growth and their abilitiy to handle their later adult struggles.
I Love My Child to DEATH OR I Love My Child to LIFE?
If discipline is teaching PLUS consequence and punishment is consequence only, how are parents to truly express love toward their children? Is love simply a continuous, un-denied, gratifying reaction from parents to children, or is it a discipline for harvesting lifelong, fruitful benefits? When children engage in environments different from their primary home environment, they may tend to desire or agree with opposing values, fearing the guilt of not fitting in and give a quiet ear to those who present themselves as family friends, with an underscore of deception. Every day, adults tell children and adolescent, “to be confident and make firm positive decisions; stand up for what you know is right.... and so forth.” But, as adults grow older, they realize that peer pressure grows through life along with them. I ask again, are parents loving their children to LIFE or loving them to DEATH? WANTS -vs. – NEEDS continues to be a lifelong challenge. What is it that makes a parent weak in their knees to say “No” or “Later” to their children? Somehow, in today’s society, there is an irony between the inability to restrain and the patience to persevere. What strong parenting issue have you had to stand firm in opposition to those you love, for the betterment of your child? Or better yet, what gave you the strength to endure? The consequences and benefits of Wants vs. Needs in the lives of children – is further discussed in my book: “School Readiness for Parents & Children, K-12. The book: “UnResolved, The Blessing of A ReSolved Lifestyle” addresses unresolved adult childhood self-esteem issues that could overlap into future parenting styles. www.resolved-2010.com As a parent, what is your take? BUY NOW!
