Jeff VanVonderen
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“the message of spiritual abuse is always the same: "God won't love you, unless ..." or "God will only love you if ...”
― Soul Repair: Rebuilding Your Spiritual Life
― Soul Repair: Rebuilding Your Spiritual Life
“God simply revealed the self-centered core that began to motivate each of them: The woman would continue to try to draw life and nurturing from a man who was not capable of filling these deep needs—never was and never will be. And the man would be forever trying to rule over the woman, either aggressively or passively trying to keep her quiet about his inadequacy to fill her needs.”
― Families Where Grace Is in Place
― Families Where Grace Is in Place
“The wife's list, no matter how long or short, communicates to the husband, "I don't like you. I don't accept you. But if you perform the way I think you should, then I will like and accept you." And no matter how long the husband's list may be, it says in like manner to his wife, "I don't like you either. But if you stop caring about things so much, if you stop feeling the way you feel and noticing the things you notice, then I will accept and like you.”
― Families Where Grace Is in Place
― Families Where Grace Is in Place
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