Henry Grayson
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The United States
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Influences
Victor Frankl, David Bohm
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November 2012
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“What we think often does more to influence the nature of our relationships than what we say or do.”
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“As I learned how to change my perceptions of my marital partner, I saw that my happiness lay not in what I could get from her, but in my choosing more often to love her without expectations of what I might get back. I learned that when I was able to love her without strings attached, she often became more loving, sometimes with her love wrapped in very different-colored packages than I was asking for, yet these new colors were often richer than what I was requesting. I also learned that when I did not do this consistently, I would instantly create pain for myself and often for her. And of great importance, I came to understand her not so much as a separate objective reality, but often as a mirror of my own attitudes, thoughts, and perceptions.”
― Mindful Loving
― Mindful Loving
“The opposite of a spiritually minded person is one who lives from the ego, which wants us to believe that we are powerless, separate from all others, and victims of circumstance. In relationships, the ego-based perspective manipulates, blames, and attacks the other person instead of assuming responsibility. The”
― Mindful Loving
― Mindful Loving






























