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Alexandra Dionisio is a certified End-of-Life Doula specializing in pediatric hospice care and the author of Learning to Say Goodbye - a grief memoir that employs magical realism through the character of her "shoulder critic," a miniature companion who has inhabited her shoulder since childhood.

Her work explores loss, transformation, and the spaces between life and death, drawing from her experience supporting families at the end of life and navigating her own journey through grief across four continents. Based in Los Angeles, she is also the host of the podcast Learning To Say Goodbye, where she explores death, grief, and spirituality through cross-cultural conversations.

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I didn't set out to write a memoir about grief. Honestly, I never imagined I'd write about grief at all.

Years ago, I was a wedding planner - helping people celebrate beginnings, first dances, toasts to forever. Later, I moved to Dubai and worked as a director of marketing and operations for a sports company. My life was full of deadlines, strategy meetings, and building brands. Read more of this blog post »
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Published on January 19, 2026 01:10 Tags: author-journey, end-of-life-doula, end-of-life-reiki, grief, grief-memoir, personal-story, why-i-write

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“You are losing it." A grave voice reaches my ear from my left shoulder. I pull down the visor and open the mirror. My shoulder critic sits there, his legs drooping over my collarbone, his face a mask of tears.

"I am not," I retort. "She was here, clear as day! Well, maybe not 'clear as day' but real enough."

My shoulder critic has been with me for as long as I can remember, born perhaps from only-child loneliness, or simply a part of me, like an arm or leg. He appears unbidden and then disappears again for long stretches of time, but when he is around, he is always dressed to express rather than impress.”
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Learning to Say Goodbye is less a memoir about loss and more a study in human attention—what we notice, what we ignore, and how meaning forms in the space between. Instead of presenting grief as a dramatic turning point, Alexandra Dionisio " Read more of this review »
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“You are losing it." A grave voice reaches my ear from my left shoulder. I pull down the visor and open the mirror. My shoulder critic sits there, his legs drooping over my collarbone, his face a mask of tears.

"I am not," I retort. "She was here, clear as day! Well, maybe not 'clear as day' but real enough."

My shoulder critic has been with me for as long as I can remember, born perhaps from only-child loneliness, or simply a part of me, like an arm or leg. He appears unbidden and then disappears again for long stretches of time, but when he is around, he is always dressed to express rather than impress.”
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