Frank G. Anderson

“It’s important to remember that the overarching goal of protective parts is to keep the hurt away. Protective parts will go to any length to distract, derail, confuse, and avoid moving toward the pain that an exiled part carries.”
― Frank G. Anderson, Transcending Trauma: Healing Complex PTSD with Internal Family Systems

“DIFFERENT TYPES OF WOUNDS In the section on attachment trauma, we talked about two different types of wounds that can develop in children when growing up. One is the collective wound, in which a main exile holds many different traumas over several years (e.g., “young Timmy” holding trauma due to the loss of his mother, the bullying he experienced at school because of his attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, and the fatal car accident he witnessed as a teen).”
― Frank G. Anderson, Transcending Trauma: Healing Complex PTSD with Internal Family Systems