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The following is a story of Love, Adoption and Selflessness. This family is VERY close to my heart...Please Read! :)

Adopting Mia: The Girl Who Stole My Heart
October 23, 2013

Seemingly insignificant steps become the tiny building blocks in God’s ultimate plan.
Last week a prayer was answered for my family. My adoption of Mia Elizabeth Poole was finalized!

The entire process has been nothing short of a miracle and for that I give God all the praise, honor, and glory!

The Planting of a Seed

I met Kristy when I was 2 years old.

My dad became pastor of a church in Wake Forrest, NC where Kristy’s family attended.

At that time, I had no clue that one day I’d fall passionately in love with Kristy and take her as my wife.

Even though I was only a toddler, God was orchestrating a plan for Mia’s adoption.

Before she was even a thought in this world, God hand-picked me to be Mia’s dad.

The Watering of a Seed

Over the next 20 years, life took us in different directions and Kristy and I lost touch.

Growing up I lived all across North Carolina, attended college at The Citadel in Charleston, and ultimately landed a banking job in Chicago.

No matter where I lived, one constant remained: I had an immense love for people–especially kids.

Looking back, it all makes perfect sense.

God was preparing my heart and my life for Mia.

The Sprouting of a Seed

When I reconnected with Kristy as an adult, I fell in love instantly.

I called my mom after our first date and to tell her that I had found my wife.

But things weren’t quite that simple. Kristy had been in an abusive marriage previously…

And she had a 4-year old daughter.

I’ll never forget the first time I met Mia. It was over lunch.

I watched on as she drowned her cabbage with Texas Pete hot sauce. The spiciness of the food didn’t seem to phase her 4-year old little body.

She was the epitome of beauty–brilliant blonde-hair, deep blue eyes, and the most perfect smile you’ve ever seen.

I don’t know exactly why, but I had butterflies that day. I was nervous to meet her. She seemed a bit nervous too.

But that didn’t last long.

The butterflies in my stomach soon became the butterflies in my heart. I was falling in love with this girl I’d soon adopt.
God had a plan…all along.

The Harvesting of a Seed
For the last 3 1/2 years, I’ve watched an energetic pre-schooler grow into a maturing, young lady. Along with her mom, she is the love of my life.

There are times when I forget that Mia is not my biological daughter. Our daddy/daughter relationship is as strong as any other.

Here’s what I’ve come to realize:

"Love is what makes a #father. Not blood. Not birth. Not even a last name."

Our love is strong because it is a love of CHOICE.

There are times when I look at her and am almost overcome by joy. It’s in those moments that the love of Christ makes so much sense to me. Ephesians 1:5 says this:

“He predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will.“

There’s no doubt in my mind that God “predestined” me to be Mia’s dad. Even when I couldn’t see it, God was working.

Thirty years ago He set in motion a perfect plan. And last week that perfect plan was completed.

I’d like to close with a letter that I wrote to Mia this week. I hope it encourages you to love on your kids just a little bit more this week.

Dear Mia,

I am proud and honored to be your dad.

God planted a seed of love in my heart for you 3 1/2 years ago. Each day, you’ve watered it with your smile, your kindness, and your zest for life.

Like your mom, you have the spirit of encouragement. Thank you for always loving me and allowing me to be a part of your life.

As long as I’m breathing or until Jesus comes back, I’ll do my best to love, protect, and provide for you.

You are one cool chick!

I may not be able to give you my blood, but I will give you my heart!

I love you,

Dad

QUESTION: What can you do to love your spouse and kids well this week?
Have you ever experienced a love story similar to mine

I am in tears as I repost this...for the entire article including pictures of Mia and her Daddy follow the link at the bottom of the post.

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Published on October 24, 2013 04:46 Tags: adoption, childhood, fatherhood, love, selflessness

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