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‘Tis the season…for stressing out about gift-giving, figuring out if you’ll visit friends and family (and how to do it without catching the plague), and spending whatever time you have off doing a million and one things you don’t have time for the rest of the year. Or is that just me? Let me offer […]

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When I say “fascinate” I mean that my surface-level knowledge of them gives me pause, creates questions in my mind, and gives me a type of morbid curiosity and nervousness. I mindfuck myself with “unanswered” questions (that I could easily find answers to). That being said, I want to point out right at the top […]

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Any kink can be done online, but some are more easily done in a virtual world than others. Of course, when you involve another person, it gets more complicated. Getting kinky with someone online requires a certain amount of trust that the other person is who they say they are and will do what they […]

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Back in June, John Brownstone and I recorded a Loving BDSM podcast episode focusing on American’s “secret desires” — according to a recent survey. In a perfect world, our sexual desires wouldn’t feel like they have to be a secret. Instead, we would find a partner who wanted to explore with us. But it doesn’t […]

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People have felt more isolated over the past year than ever before due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Humans need intimacy, but it’s something many haven’t experienced in a long time, leading to a number of psychological concerns. Without closeness, we start to forget who we are. We need to have the touch of other people […]

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Dear Diary… Why did I start a journal entry with “Dear diary…”? What am I…11? I just need to write this down. Commemorate it. Memorialize it somehow. So here I am. Cracking open a journal I bought years ago as part of my ambitious hopes as a writer. Will I write here again? Maybe. I […]

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It’s almost cliche for a cis-woman to love using a vibrator — when in reality, a lot of people love all kinds of sex toys. But I’m one of those women. If given a choice between a dildo, a vibe, a butt plug, and any other toy that could stimulate my vulva or my ass, […]

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Note: While we’re focusing on male escorts in this piece, this information applies to escorts of any gender — as well as clients of any gender. Hiring an escort isn’t for everyone, but it’s also not a completely wild idea, either. Plenty of people have found that an escort has been a great experience for […]

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Well, it’s here. The dildo and strap-on he asked me to order. Okay, the toys he dom-ed me into ordering. I could have said no, but he had that gleam in his eye, and I can’t deny him anything when he gets like that. It’s all my fault, really. The moment he found the porn […]

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