Everyone tries to tell me all about how great
the hookup life is. They tell me about how
awesome it is to just visit someone’s bed, have
sex, and leave before you have to remember
their name or the sound of their voice. They
tell me it is all the rage, and that everyone is
doing it. But I dunno, I don’t quite buy it.
That’s not to say that I judge other people for
their choices, or what makes them happy. But
I just don’t think hookups are my cup of tea
anymore — if they ever were.

I want someone to not just sleep with, but to
spend the night with, and wake up with. I want
someone who will eat breakfast with me,
before rushing off to school or work. I want
someone who will be waiting at home for me,
or waiting for my text, to talk about our day.
Am I the only guy who is
looking for this?

I don’t think there is anything specifically
“masculine” or “manly” about wanting to
attract the maximum amount of sex for the
minimum amount of effort. I don’t get that. I
don’t get guys who keep tabs on how many
girls they have slept with, or challenge each
other to sleep with girls of certain ethnicities,
backgrounds, or sororities. And while I’ve had
a one night stand here and there, it’s just not
enough.

Sex isn’t enough. Physical pleasure, temporary
sensations are not a replacement for genuine
emotions. And while maybe there is quite a bit
of momentary pleasure in an orgasm, my
suspicion is that it doesn’t match the pleasure
held within a lifetime of hugs from someone
you care about “around the clock.”
Relationships are riskier, I’ll admit. You are
putting more on the line. More time, more
money, and more feelings. And some of those
feelings could be bad ones, because unlike in the
movies, relationships don’t always work out.
But I think I am ready for
them. I want the feels, give
them all to me.

I want the commitment, I want the risk, I
want the emotions, I want the real thing. I
want to go on adventures that take us far
beyond our respective bedrooms. I want to
travel to places that we have only imagined. I
want to celebrate birthdays, anniversaries,
and holidays. I want to go shopping together,
and just enjoy life’s mundane things with a
partner who wants to enjoy them with me too.

I want to watch my partner
grow into their career,
their aspirations, and our
life.

And I’m not pretending like the next person I
go on a date with will be the person I stay
with forever. I know that finding someone takes
a lot of time and effort, but I also know that I
want to start now. I want to get to know
someone, to go on dates, to take risks, and to
work to find something that’s real.
I want to share something with someone that
last more than a few seconds. And I know that
that journey isn’t easy, but I am ready — even
when I feel like the only one.

If there's any you know who wishes the same,please give them my number lol

Its time one focuses on dreams,passions and motivations not some peer pressured perceptions, shagging and ducking, no!! Its time I find someone who will help me see an HD version of my reveries.

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