Editor’s note:  This conversation isn’t going to get as explicit as it could, but it is going to get frank and detailed. If you’re not invested in the internal perceptions a trans woman has during sex, skip the post. There’s literally nothing else here.

When you start transition, no one sits you down to have a sex talk. No one warns you about the way that your body’s perceptions change, no one talks about how to access the physical sensations that you crave or how the way your fading dysphoria...