Week 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?

Most of my kink pet peeves are book related. Every time I read “I can tell you’re a natural submissive” or “I know what you need,” I cringe. No matter how good a person is and how much experience they have, there’s no way they can validate these two statements without talking to the submissive.

BDSM is all about negotiation no matter how unsexy like that sounds. After you have all the cards lined up, then you can decide who takes contr...