“Home is the place where, when you have to go there,
they have to take you in."

"I should have called it
Something you somehow shouldn’t have to deserve.”
from Robert Frost's 'Death of a Hired Man

We are still learning to balance the beliefs we know are worth fighting over and the need to put an arm around family. We are still learning not to make the person we grew up with a two-dimensional character in the allegory of our imagination.
We are still, after all this time, learning to be human – which is an identity we already own, not something we’re still trying to earn.

from:

http://www.dagray.net/blog/november-2...