Too Tall Too Soon

When It’s Okay to Tell God What You Want When You Wish You Had More to Give

Too Tall Too Soon

A poem for preteen girls…and the mamas who love them

Too tall too soon,

a wonder-eyed kid caught in a growing-fast body.

“So wise and mature,” the watching world exclaims—

and sometimes it’s true—

but I know how you sleep snuggling armfuls of stuffed animals

and half-believe in Big Foot and magic.

Or at least you wish you could believe.

Too tall too soon,

and even I forget how your old soul is still so young—

one minute your brilliant insights could end world hunger,

the next you are so hungry your whole world is ending.

Our days start with weep-giggling and end with giggle-weeping,

till you give my heart whiplash,

and neither of us knows if we want to hug it out

or strangle each other,

so we try a little of both.

Too tall too soon,

and others your age are already all-knowing eye-roll masters:

too cool to smile; too cynical to pretend, let alone believe—

but you know, and I know,

that rainbows are squeal-worthy,

and any day now our Hogwarts letters are coming,

and birthday cake tastes better shaped like a unicorn.

(But we have to know it in secret.)

Too tall too soon,

but my girl, you will never be too tall

to fit in these arms,

to rest your almost-taller-than-me head on these shoulders—

and your problems will never be too big,

and you will never be too big,

because no matter how you grow,

you will always stay my little girl.

a poem for preteen girls and their mothers