That idea for a book you have. That marketing tactic that worked for you. That hour of your time for a reader who is dying to meet you. 

Too often we're locked into our fear of giving away too much, by thinking that it somehow limits us. That it takes away from us. That is hurts us.

And yes, some of the giving away can hurt you. When you give away blindly and recklessly to anyone who asks about anything, knowing you shouldn't yet going against your gut.

This is not the giving away I'm talking a...