(Video from Youtube's Lailah Lynn)The past few days the media has been buzzing with reports of all kind of cheating and sex scandals. From Surviving R. Kelly, toPastor John Grayeven in 2017 I blogged aboutWendy Williams' husband possibly getting his sidepiece pregnant- which in her case I almost feel like they are rehashing an old story because of Wendy's illness. As if the only time she is sick is because she is distraught over her husband cheating - maybe-but we will never know the truth.With Pastor John Gray's wife, Aventer, in my opinion, she got it right. Not pretending that everything is fine and standing by her marriage in a very harrowing situation that could have completely brought down themselves and their church.Putting scripture on a sidepiecewill allow God to take care of what needs to be handled with that woman, and Aventer will handle what need to be handle in her marriage.Only my opinion, but I agree with her not to leave her marriage. Why should she? She has been the Pastor's rib all this time and has been there to help him and encourage him with God's Plan for himself, their family and their ministry. Why would she allow that "strange woman" take that from her? Why would she allow Pastor Gray to take that from her? The best thing to do is build what is broken better and recognize that Church HO's exist.