[image error]One of the most important qualities I look for in adult friendships is the “still gives an eff” factor.

Marks of the STAF factor vary wildly from person to person but some of my current favorites in friends include: owning at least one item of clothing that makes you blush; answering “What music are you into these days?” without citing the radio, a movie soundtrack, or weekly worship; and the regular and unapologetic celebration of your own birthday.

Personally, I have given up on the celebra...