Human beings can be a wily bunch, with an uncanny ability to readily identify the faults of others while justifying or ignoring our own.  Before pointing fingers, it behooves us to take stock of our own behavior.  This being the final count down week before Santa determines whether we've been naughty or nice, perhaps it would be a good idea to think about where we fall on his list.

Looking online, I found a "Santa meter" with the following categories:  very naughty, kind of naughty, not too bad, pretty nice, and very nice.  Obviously, these labels must be based on an "average score" of sorts, as it's likely that we're not totally "very naughty" or "very nice" in all areas.  Therefore, I've come up with a just-in-time mini-quiz, assigning the following numerical values, so you can see how you score in your behavior self-assessment before Santa makes his own judgment:

Never = 1 point

Almost never = 2 points

Sometimes = 3 points

Usually = 4 points

Always = 5 points

1.   I say "please" and "thank you" when someone does something nice for me, whether opening a door or giving me a gift.

2.   I actively listen—respectfully and thoughtfully—to others' opinions, without interrupting them.

3.   I am able to disagree without being disagreeable.

4.   When I am wrong or have wronged someone, I apologize.

5.   I recognize the power of words and choose them carefully.

6.   I enjoy doing kind deeds for others.

7.  Rather than make snap judgments, I give the other fellow the benefit of the doubt.

8.   I am judicious in my use of a cell phone—never while driving—and considerate of those who are in my presence.

9.   I am prompt and on time for appointments and meetings.

10.  I am courteous to fellow drivers in parking lots and on the road—for example, allowing them to merge ahead of me.

11.  I accept responsibility rather than blame others.

12.  I am a grateful person.

13.  I keep my emotions in check and am cool under fire.

14.   I treat all people with respect.

15.   As a parent, my behavior is a worthy role model for my children.

Obviously, this little quiz addresses only a limited number of behaviors, but you can see where this is going.  Also, you probably don't even have to tally points to quantify your strengths and shortcomings.  However, if your answers are consistently "never" or "almost never," you'll need plenty of soap to tidy up from that pile of coal that Santa drops down your chimney.