The Problem with Reviews

On this site I will only be critical of dead authors. In fact maybe they have to be dead for a really long time. I haven't quite worked that part out yet. You see, I read all the time and I read friction all the time. I read books my friends have written, books to blurb by writers trying to break into the business and books written by strangers that I'm just reading for the heck of it. For me to inviserate another's work is asking for trouble for me and I know this firsthand. I'm not earning my living as a critic. I'm earning my living as a writer. Doctors don't like to testify against each other. Writer's should consider why.

All writers do not feel this way. Every Sunday I pick up the NYT Book Review and read it cover to cover. There are vast numbers of authors reviewing the work of their presumable peers and just sticking a knife between their ribs. Often, the reviewer is preparing to publish their first work of fiction and the reviewed author has enjoyed some success until the young whippersnapper smells an opportunity. Hopefully that reviewer will vanish into obscurity as fast as hell can open its gates.

Just my opinion.

So I will try to be more vigiliant about blogging but if it's blood you want, you won't get it from me.
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Published on October 06, 2009 14:17
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message 1: by Mom (new)

Mom Well said! My Gramma always said, "You catch more flies with honey than vinegar." It's something I live by and the whippersnappers you referred to above would do well to do the same!


message 2: by Mary (new)

Mary Thomas So true. As the old adage says, if you can't say something nice, say nothing at all!. BTW I am an avid DBF's fan and have read most everything written (currently reading the only one I think I had missed)! I love the stories and characters and feel like I am there with old friends. Looking forward to more.


message 3: by Mom (new)

Mom @Mary, Me too! I read everything she writes eagerly, I just got Return to Sullivan's Island, and I can't wait to dig into it! I now live in New Jersey, and it's not easy finding books written by southerners, or about the south, but when I find Dot's books, I snatch them up happily. I think there are only one or two that I haven't read yet.


message 4: by Judi (last edited May 26, 2011 05:31PM) (new)

Judi Ah. How refreshing. Absolute PROOF of one reason I so adore you, Dorothea Benton Frank!
A Huge Fan Am I!!
~Joyful Judi in Columbus, OH

p.s. One of my main motto's in life was joyfully discovered in your book, The Land of Mango Sunsets.... I was flabbergasted that you put it so precisely and perfectly -- using just five short lingering words. And I quote: "I KNOW NOW WHAT MATTERS."

You see, I had the saying engraved upon a sterling silver bracelet and loved it so. Right up until I gave away the bracelet to a woman I met at the Cape May, NJ seashore who had lost her only child... A beautiful dark-haired 22-year-old daughter who resembled mine. I never knew her daughter and had only just met her... We held hands and looked out at the ocean together and just wept and wept. And bonded. I gifted her the bracelet the next day at breakfast (as she is my aunt's best friend, though I'd only just met her)... Every time I power up my cell or PC, I see my motto, written by you:

I know now what matters.

And, Dorothea, I do.

Thank you so very much. God bless you, gentle writer.


message 5: by Becca18158 (new)

Becca18158 I think you are an amazing author...I love Pawley's Island best of all - It's one of my overall top 10. I got it on CD and have listened to it at least 10 times - no joke! I've also given it as a gift to friends - especially the friends who are "starting over" as so many characters in the book are redefining their lives. I love how the characters with virtually nothing in common become their own family. In my own life I moved away to recreate my life - like Rebecca; and I've never missed a meal - like Huey! Throughout the book I laughed and I cried... it came at a perfect time in my life and I've been reading everything you've written ever since... there's always a new message that inspires and grounds me!
KEEP WRITING!
Massachusetts Super Fan!


message 6: by Shirley (new)

Shirley You are just the best! I have all your books.Love your work!


message 7: by Krystyn (new)

Krystyn Are the books in the Lowcountry series meant to be read IN ORDER? Or in other words, are the characters the same throughout each book? I want to start reading them, but don't want to read them out of order.


message 8: by Cindy (new)

Cindy Spoken like a true Southern Lady.


message 9: by Tolly (new)

Tolly I love your thoughts on this. For one year my goal is to write a review on every book I read, just to think more about them, it helps my reading to think about reviewing it, but alas, I am not a writer, just a reader. At least so far. Thanks for your writings!


message 10: by Tesa (new)

Tesa Jones Love your refreshing, positive and uplifting opinion. Can we clone you and sprinkle you around our nation -- heck -- around the world :)


message 11: by Cathy (new)

Cathy I just read Queen Bee & I loved it! You are one of my most favorite authors & I've read all your books. When I hear that your next book is due to arrive I can hardly wait. I love the Low Country altho it's been years since I have visited in person but when I read your books I can smell the pluff mud & taste the fried shrimp. Thanks for all the reading pleasure you have given me.


message 12: by Colleen (new)

Colleen Scidmore I was so saddened to see this dearly beloved writer had passed, My first book read by Dorothea was The Original Wife. I was going through a tough time in my life, especially in my marriage. It gave me the strength I needed to get through that tough time. And to realize life goes on and things will be ok, maybe even better if you’re lucky.
I have read several more of DBF’s works after and will always be a fan. I grieve for no new books but will make sure to read everything else I can of find of Dorothea’s. This wonderful author is truly missed.


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