Stop that Judgemental Look

The billionaire, standing in front of you, has once faced poverty.

The healthy man, standing in front of you, once went to bed empty stomach.

The man in expensive shoes, standing in front of you, once walked bare foot.

Then why just look at the position they are now and not at what they were before? Why just looking at the smiles on their faces today and not caring about the tears that fell from the same eyes yesterday?

Every person who is walking by you has his very own story which maybe is full of tears, sorrow and heartbreaks or full of love, smiles and care or a mixture of both. We just can't look at a person and be judgmental towards him.

Let's face it, we all have our own problems and our own source of happiness and so we have got no right to judge others. Instead, let's support them for who they are and not pursue them to become what they are not or what we want them to be.

If we pursue them to become what they are not then believe me, we'll lose a beautiful soul that is full of originality. After that, only a fake soul will be left with us whose love will also be as fake as it is, isn’t?

We ourselves are not perfect and we know that fact already then why are we expecting everyone around us to be perfect? A perfect company? A perfect personality? A perfect being?

Everyone has a past, everyone has imperfections and everyone has scars. It all depends on us as to how we take it, how we accept it and how we promise to look beyond it and also fulfil that promise.

Just imagine what a beautiful place earth would be to live at, after people have left their fake faces which they were forced to show just because of the fear of being judged.

If you want to know someone in real, then don't just go by the looks but rather have a look at his character, his yesterday and the most important, at his heart.

Why character?
Because his real character can never lie, can never betray and it speaks a whole lot about his real self.

Why his yesterday?
Because his yesterday will tell us more about him than anyone or anything ever will.

Why heart?
Because his heart will never prove out to be a traitor, like his actions and words.

The person who we feel is bad today, maybe was a good soul yesterday.

The person who betrayed you today, maybe was betrayed by someone else yesterday.

The person who is ruthless today, maybe, has faced a much severe condition yesterday.

We just don't know about anyone completely and this leaves no point to judge him.

Isn't it weirdly funny that the person who we first find to be the coldest person by making us feel that he has got no heart, turns out to be the most sensitive and caring person at the end?

Isn't this enough to explain that not everyone who behaves with so much of hatred is actually full of hate; maybe, deep deep inside, we will be able to find his heart full of love.

No one is born bad, cold hearted, emotionless, arrogant or ruthless, it’s the circumstances, the situation, the story behind him that turns a person in the personality that we don't want to encounter with.

So, let's not judge and before telling someone about the third person's character, just make sure that you know every minor detail of him, his story and his emotions.
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Published on December 15, 2019 19:29
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Satish Arora Most of the times we judge a person just by seeing him or hearing about him from someone which’s not correct. We have no right to form opinion without knowing every minor details about him. This message is very well conveyed in this blog.


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