Unknown to me, for most of my life I was subconsciously stuck in a victim mindset. We all know some people who actively play the victim but others of us are stuck in the victim mindset too! We just call it something else.

A victim mindset is whenever you focus on how you believe people have done you wrong and or focusing on what they did that hurt you so bad.

That was me. While I might not have repeatedly spoke about the mean things people, mostly family, to be blunt, did to me I still had a...