“If you say no to a man, he won’t marry you and you will be left alone”.
“If you say no to a man, he won’t respect you”.

Over the years, part of my work has been to untangle patterns of behaviour in my clients which they are unable to control and which also, sadly, get them into trouble. Such patterns of behaviour are always rooted in either one of two places: the childhood of my client or the parents/grandparents of my client. In terms of behaviour in relationships and in particular, in sexua...